GUILTY OK - Jaymie Adams, 25, Blanchard, 9 Dec 2011

[nursebeeme]

this case is downright strange.....


check out the find jaymie facebook page... (to paraphrase the seeking the lost person is trying to give the family tips on what to do)


http://www.facebook.com/help.find.jaymie

 

[RabidBadger]

I don't understand why the family has become non responsive. No response to media enquiries or any kind of work to find her. Do they not care?

Is this the next reality of missing persons cases? Ignoring everyone from day one? What have they got to hide? It seems like the police don't have anything to go on either. WTF?

 

[nursebeeme]

it is really hinky to me.

like... r e a l l yhinky.....

:twocents:

 

[dillysmom11]

I hesitate to speak ill of the missing, but isn't it possible she was having an affair (military man leaving the swing shift? She likes military men), and her husband following looking for her? That would explain his telling his mom at 3 a.m. and Jaymie not sharing her "friends" name. IMO

 

[JeannaT]

it is really hinky to me.

like... r e a l l yhinky.....

:twocents:

From what I can gather from facebook, she is basically estranged from her birth family, and now it looks like Justin may be considering she left on purpose. At first he seemed panicked - sincerely - but now he's gone quiet.

I really don't think he knows, specifically, what happened to Jaymie but the panic seems to be gone.

 

[TxLady2]

I don't understand why the family has become non responsive. No response to media enquiries or any kind of work to find her. Do they not care?

Is this the next reality of missing persons cases? Ignoring everyone from day one? What have they got to hide? It seems like the police don't have anything to go on either. WTF?

Seems very strange, doesn't it? I guess she could have left of her own volition, and maybe this is what the husband thinks, thus his silence. But somebody needs to keep her face and name out there in the media and the public. I hope she is found.

 

[terracotta]

The difficult thing about her leaving on her own is that it really goes against everything she wrote on her blog on Nov 30, 2011. How much loves Christmas...counting down the days to xmas, giving and making gifts. All about how she loves being a mom. So two weeks later after such a passion filled blog she walks away from her children. I absolutely do not believe that. It just doesn't make basic sense. She is in her first trimester of a new pregnancy has a 4 month old and two other older children. She just married her new husband a year ago. I can't imagine she would leave her children.

 

[Cazzie]

Still thinking about you, Jaymie.... :heart:

 

[JeannaT]

The difficult thing about her leaving on her own is that it really goes against everything she wrote on her blog on Nov 30, 2011. How much loves Christmas...counting down the days to xmas, giving and making gifts. All about how she loves being a mom. So two weeks later after such a passion filled blog she walks away from her children. I absolutely do not believe that. It just doesn't make basic sense. She is in her first trimester of a new pregnancy has a 4 month old and two other older children. She just married her new husband a year ago. I can't imagine she would leave her children.

Given the totality of her adult life experiences, I think she would.

To me, it wasn't a "passion filled blog" - I thought it was very odd that she began it with the title about this being difficult. It didn't ring true to me. I know others may say the actual writing process was the difficult part - to me, it just rang hollow. Her own extended birth family isn't saying nice things about her, that I can tell.

I also don't see many people leaping up and saying no way, she'd never leave. Even her own husband and LE have grown quiet.

There was one quote from a mom from the same elementary school saying she participated actively in school functions - not a friend but an acquaintance - but Terri Horman had that kind of support too, and um hm.

 

[Darcyline]

Blogging/writing is very difficult so the painful beginning part really doesn't seem weird to me. That may just be my personal perspective as someone who has blogged and written stuff and called it painful or full of pain over and over again, ha ha.
She could have left though. It is definitely a very strange case. I don't really get that the husband is involved in this case, but I feel like if she was having an affair with someone and left with them there should be some evidence of it somewhere. Of course, I am hoping she didn't get mixed up with someone who later harmed her and then everyone assumes she is off on a beach somewhere living it up. If she did run away, I hope she at least contacts her children to make sure they don't worry.

 

[nvrforgtn]

I don't think the story is updated online yet, but the local news said LE obtained Justin's cell phone records, questioned him for 4 hours, and gave him a polygraph test. They didn't tell the results or any details.

 

[revampz]

http://www.newson6.com/story/16318685/missing-blanchard-womans-husband-pleads-for-wifes-safe-return

If the comment by Steve 16 hours ago is true then she may have run off.....it also could be motive for him

 

[terracotta]

Given the totality of her adult life experiences, I think she would.

To me, it wasn't a "passion filled blog" - I thought it was very odd that she began it with the title about this being difficult. It didn't ring true to me. I know others may say the actual writing process was the difficult part - to me, it just rang hollow. Her own extended birth family isn't saying nice things about her, that I can tell.

I also don't see many people leaping up and saying no way, she'd never leave. Even her own husband and LE have grown quiet.

There was one quote from a mom from the same elementary school saying she participated actively in school functions - not a friend but an acquaintance - but Terri Horman had that kind of support too, and um hm.

Yes I understand your view. I guess in reading about her it was said by someone on FB that she has been through so much in her life. I felt that she was trying to give her boys that which she didn't get. She talks about herself as a mom. Crafting and going beyond store bought things. She has many crafting hobbies. I also can relate to the the difficulty in starting a blog to make it interesting, writing is difficult. She wants her blog to be inspiring, and to teach others.

It just feels to me as though she met with foul play. I think it is the very rare mother that walks away from their children.

 

[nursebeeme]

http://www.koco.com/r-video/30004543/detail.html

 

[mayqueen]

I don't think she left voluntarily, though I may end up being wrong. She had 3 young children and another one on the way (allegedly)... would she leave her kids without batting an eye shortly before Christmas? And why not take the van?

It seems like many people are writing her off as a walkaway because of her history. Example: My husband doesn't follow the news, so I gave him a brief synopsis of Jaymie's case and asked what he thought happened to her. He said "Well, her past is kinda dicey... she might've taken off with a new guy." But I don't think that's fair - if I went missing, I wouldn't want people not to look for me due to choices I've made in the past!! What a depressing thought.

The husband's story is hinky/odd to me, but I don't know why. It's hard to tell if he fabricated it, or if it just seems hinky because he doesn't know who his wife was meeting up with late at night. (There's no WAY my hubby wouldn't know the name of the person I was meeting up with in the wee hours of the morn - but every marriage is unique.)

I'm not saying she met with foul play... I have no idea at this point. But I don't think it should be assumed that she left voluntarily, not with the limited information given.

It's too bad that her family is not working with the media... I hope she has loving friends who will keep looking for her. Hoping for a positive outcome for Jaymie and her children! :twocents:

 

[JeannaT]

I do understand what you're saying, Mayqueen. And in fact, people who have more checkered pasts are more likely to meet with foul plan than people who've always lead cautious careful lives.

So I guess at what point should LE completely violate any privacy rights adults have? If I'm missing for a day, I'm 100% for LE getting access to all my records, my computer, my cell phone, my bank accounts, in an effort to piece together where I am.

But obviously other adults want more freedom to be able to leave on their own and be untraceable, which is their right too. (Except in this case, I think you could charge her with child abandonment).

So it's hard to know in what cases to rush in and violate privacy.

 

[LandrunnerWFW]

Greetings,

This is the first time I have ever posted here, as I just discovered this website yesterday.

Normally I don't pay much attention to missing person cases and the like, but somehow the Jayme Adams case kind of stuck in my heart upon hearing about it in the local media, as I live within 5 miles of the McDonalds where the vehicle was found. Guess two reasons, the proximity to landrunner's residence and she does look a bit gorgeous in her picture. So the online Daily Oklahoman had an article on it and the local TV stations did as well, but after Monday, nothing at all on it. So yesterday did a web-search on it (and didn't help that I didn't remember her first name correctly (Kaylee instead of Jayme) and that she was from Blanchard and not Mustang.

Finally I found this site, and read all the posts up to the 10:00 am post yesterday, to learn the rest of the story (as the late Paul Harvey would put it). First I confess that the local media made an (see if Ms. Grundy, the site censor, will allow that word...should, though...because it is in the Bible) out of me because I have heard that if I assume something, it makes an out of you and me. But not you guys and gals. So the media tells she is the mother of three with another on the way, and shows her husband, looking like the typical macho all American dude type, which I think he is. However, what they did not tell, which I learned from all your postings, is that each of Jayme's kids had different fathers, and she had just been married to the latest dude since February, and her past history has really been suspect.

Since I live in the local area, thought I would join up here and post from a local perspective, if I may. The area of action, including the McDonalds and the Crest store, is not in the most upscale and fanciest section of the Oklahoma City metro. On the other hand, it isn't in the poorest or most crime ridden area of the city either. I'd say it is middle class (with what is left of it) and working folks type of area. The Crest in question is just a tad over two miles north of McDonalds. It is a nice practical store, and it is my favorite store to shop for groceries. Not real upscale and fancy, but excellent in layout, prices, and being able to get in and out quickly, which I like. So I can understand how Jayme "targeted" that store for alleged grocery shopping.

Now as far as the "foul play" speculation goes, I think it was a personal foul on the part of Jayme. Reason being, is that I don't think that McDonalds is extremely dangerous area, where thugs are lurking, just waiting to kidnap 220 pound women who just might stop there at one o'clock in the morning. Now whether she is as attractive in real life as her photo shows, weighing 220 pounds, is another thing. So I think chances of her being abducted, or else murdered and disposed of, would be very slim to none.

So, for what it is worth, this is my theory or hypothesis. I think Jayme premeditated, with her latest man friend (unless she happened to turn lesbian) to rendezvous with him at that McDonalds, and keep it secret that she was going to disappear mysteriously, and hide out at the man's place or wherever, and leave her vehicle behind. With the timing involved, leaving Blanchard at 11:15 pm, and arriving at McD almost two hours later, that would give her time to truly go to the crest store and stock up on groceries for her escape, and weighing what she does with another on board, she could use alot, and transfer to the man's vehicle upon rendezvous. With her cell phone, she could easily turn it off (depending upon how unsmart it was) or take out the chip and battery to make it utterly untraceable.

So with the history and lack of stability in certain areas of Jayme's life, I think this is what could very well have happened, and I guess she might reappear sometime before Christmas, or maybe on Christmas or shortly thereafter. Hopefully no foul plays that media and LE might have happened do not take place.

Best we can do is pray for the best, and that Jayme and her loved ones get the necessary help.

Best to all of you concerned folks.

God's blessings....

 

[wfgodot]

Hello, and welcome to WS, LandrunnerWFW.

 

[krimekat]

Welcome to WS, LandrunnerWFW & thanks for the local perspective!

:welcome:

I agree, she ran off with someone

 

[dog.gone.cute]

Last night, I was reading the statement made by Justin on a news site and it peaked my interest ... so I thought I would come here and catch up because I knew the members here at WS would be "on the ball" with the latest info ... :great:

First, let me say that most of the time when I first hear about someone "missing", I usually go with my "gut" -- my "first impression" ...

But on this one, I am :fence::fence: ...

IMO ... it could go either way :

(1) Jaymie met with foul play -- which IMO would be the "hubby" -- OR --

(2) Jaymie left intentionally


A few questions :

(1) Could it be that Jaymie and Justin had a "fight" before she left to meet her "friend" so late in the evening, especially since she has 3 other children to take care and also being pregnant ?

While it is NOT unusual to go off that late in the evening, I would think "most" husbands would want to know WHO their wife was going meet so late in the evening.

(2) Was this "normal" for Jaymie to go off so late in the evening and leave the children with hubby ?

(3) While it is said she is "pregnant" -- could she have gone to a bar room ? Just a "suggestion" ... ya never know because there are women who do "drugs" and "drink" when they are pregnant and "smoke" ...

(4) From what was stated about Jaymie's "past" history with men -- which may (or may not) have anything to do with it IF she met with FOUL PLAY ... could she have left intentionally to meet another man ? Again, ya never know ...

IMO ... this is really "strange" ... finding the car at McD's -- do they have "cameras" ? ... the hubby wanting LE to "break into the car" -- oh, and WHY didn't the hubby have, or bring, the car keys -- usually married couples have sets of keys to each other's vehicles ...

IMO ... this could go either way ...

:fence:

MOO ...