Finally! Ok, I've been trying to get on here for about a week now, but the holidays and all, it took a while to get approved. I apologize for the disorganized post, but I have a lot going on atm, and I wanted to get this information to you all as quickly as possible.
The long-short of it is, I know Jaymie Adams personally although I have not spoken to her in several years. FYI, what I am about to divulge to the forum is already known by the authorities who are investigating Jaymie's disappearance.
By the time Jaymie was 18 or 19 years old, she was already an experienced stripper. She and a friend of mine (the father of her 3rd son) got together for a while. During the time she was with him, she would sneak out of their place late at night to cheat on him and, he has long suspected, to engage in prostitution. They were both unemployed, but after these late night trips, they would wind up with unexpected money. He said that she would tell him that she borrowed it from someone.
So, the "massage" business is very likely prostitution. Her past is very sordid and it is nothing for her to drop out of existence for a while only to pop back up again elsewhere in OK. She is experienced in dealing with homeless shelters.
The thing is though, she never leaves her oldest son behind. My friend and I were not surprised that she disappeared when we found out she went missing. However we found out a week after she went missing, and that is a long time for her to completely disappear. Not only that but even more alarming and outside her nature is that she left behind all of her kids. My friend believes that she has been involved in prostitution and drugs for several years now. She is very street smart and very manipulative, so this disappearance is surprising to us in that someone could get the drop on her.
Jaymie was adopted and grew up in Bartlesville, but I do not know anyone else in her family. What I do know is that she and her parents have been at odds for many years. From what I gathered, her adoptive parents are highly successful people and well off financially. However, they have never approved of Jaymie's decision-making which is unsurprising given what I know of her.
Additionally, Jaymie has spent a lot of time in the Tulsa and OKC areas of the state. If she has gone to ground for some reason, these are places to look for her. The last time my friend spoke to her was Feb of this year (2011). He is also the one who informed the authorities of her past. Not much help to the forum I know, but it's something.
I am hoping that knowing this will help you experienced websleuths in some way. I am amazed and impressed at how thorough the forumites in here have been in investigating Jaymie's disappearance. I figured that I could help by at least providing some details as to her character so that you all would not have to continue speculating on what kind of a person she is. Regardless of that, she has never wronged me and those of us who know her are concerned for her well-being. Her boys have definitely got to be missing her crazily because where she goes, they go.
Feel free to ask me questions, and I will try to get back to you asap. Maybe your questions might jog my memory to something that might help track her down, but then again I haven't spoken to her in years. Thanks everyone.
