Ok, she does/did drugs, allegedly

[tangerinemoon]

I think if she experimented with anything, she probably went for the ecstasy. Her love of Shamrocks..... She loves lollypops and popsicles.

 

[Zingo]

I posted a question about the A's subtance abuse a few days ago. Got no response. I even tried to post a thread about this and got deleted.... My experience (as a former substance abuse RN) has been that there is no dysfunctional family without substance abuse....usually alcohol and cigarettes first....then pot...then precripted pills...such as tranquilizers and pain pills ( valium, xanax, oxycontin, etc) then illicet street drugs... coke, meth, ecstacy, date-rape drugs...etc.

This HAS to be a factor with one or more of the A's. All of them...imo... to one degree or another. And furthermore, I believer LE knows this and has tested this to the best of their ability...hence, why some members of the family refuse to turn over their DNA and take lie detector tests.

ITA ... I don't know about the rest of the family, but KC def shows signs of a drug habit. I posted this in another thread, but I've had personal experiences with a family member on drugs. They lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate to continue their habit. And the parents are usually in the dark, or in denial. It's part of the cycle: the addict needs an enabler. And the enabler vascilates between complete denial to complete rage. (Sounds like CA???) The family members (enablers) are hostages to the addict, and yet they refuse to make tough choices such as setting their own boundaries. Their lives are enmeshed in the chaos created by the addict.

This is what I see with KC and her family ... CA is a complete co-dependent.

 

[sharpar]

GA is the enabler - he and KC both mooching off CA - neither met their responsibilities both involved in nefarious activities - each one has the goods on the other. They would absolutely conspire with each other and blow smoke for Cindy - they have been doing it for a long time.

I was on the phone and had the sound turned down and the raging jail visit was playing cindy is horrified sobbing in utter distress and agony - George is on the phone with KC -he is totally oblivious to Cindys distress - KC is smiling and laughing fully enjoying her daddys attention & Cindys pain . Utterly horriffic to see.

 

[mikeysmommom]

GA is the enabler - he and KC both mooching off CA - neither met their responsibilities both involved in nefarious activities - each one has the goods on the other. They would absolutely conspire with each other and blow smoke for Cindy - they have been doing it for a long time.

I was on the phone and had the sound turned down and the raging jail visit was playing cindy is horrified sobbing in utter distress and agony - George is on the phone with KC -he is totally oblivious to Cindys distress - KC is smiling and laughing fully enjoying her daddys attention & Cindys pain . Utterly horriffic to see.

I feel the same way.CA is not the enabler but George is.Can you imagine living with the two of them. CA was trying to get answers IMO