Scandi, I, for one, do not want you to delete this post. Probably because I agree with you.
True, anyone can die at any time, just crossing the street, for example. But the odds of dying while mountain climbing are significantly higher. That's why life insurance for those who practice extreme sports is so high.
I think of Kelly's youngest son, who is 12 years old. I have three sons that age (triplets) and they and I would be devastated if anything happened to my husband. I would be very angry if my husband died doing something as dangerous as mountain climbing. His responsibilities as a husband and father are more important, in my view.
I suppose I would look at it like he thought the enjoyment he got from mountain climbing outweighed the pain and hardship he would leave behind for his family. Knowing that he died doing something he loved would not be a good substitute for not having him around. Knowing he died in severe pain, cold, alone, wet, hungry, thirsty, and afraid would not be much comfort either.
I think that when a person becomes a parent, giving up things one used to enjoy or buy or be or go to or whatever, is part of the picture.
Whatever happened up on that mountain was a tragic accident. I hope the risk was worth the price, to those involved. It wouldn't be to me and my family.
There is a trip report posted at Cascade Climbers on the new thread (the first was locked due to length, but the link is at the end of it). It tells of a harrowing, dangerous experience Jerry Cooke had when climbing Mt. Ranier. Out of nowhere, an accident can occur that is deadly -- Cooke and his partner lived through that one.
http://www.cascadeclimbers.com/foru...=Fuggedaboudit&topic=0&Search=true#Post481415
That said, if these men wanted to do what they did, with the blessings of their families, then that's okay with me. I don't pretend to understand why someone would pursue a dangerous sport, since I am not someone who would do that myself -- I'd be too scared.
scandi said:
This extreme sport is a fantastic one. It is also a very selfish one, motivated by savoring every spark of the experience to beat defeat, and let the fear that could devestate you turn into your reason for living when you beat it and succeed in your climb. Living on the edge.
To be married, have 4 children, a life so blessed with a wife who adores you - or maybe she doesn't. I don't know. In that place in life why would you risk dying, when any wrong move on your part might send you to your death on the mountain.
I just hope his wife accepted him for what it was that she loved, and took her place as second and it didn't matter what place she was. Everyone does what they have to or want to do in living their life. I just think how unfair for the children he had.
Their children had no choice in choosing a father who loved the sport so much, but knew in a heartbeat that one wrong move and that could be it for this life on earth. And that happened.
If you want me to delete this I will. I just had to say something. Thank goodness I stopped, as I could have said a few more things.