OR - Kyron Horman, 7 yo Second grader, Portland, 4 June 2010 - Part #16

[joshiesmom]

I do feel it's suspicious that SM's facebook barely ever mentioned Kyron or had any pics of him in the last 5 months, and then suddenly on June 4th she posted a pic of him at the science fair the SAME DAY. The teacher said that SM emailed her around that time as well to ask when they should pick up the science fair stuff. SM was playing games on FB around 3pm...and a couple hours AFTER she reported Kyron missing too? Wow. Rumor also has it that SM and BM are best friends, and that the family dynamics are EXTREMELY "different" and complicated, much more so than just the typical blended/step situation, perhaps that's why LE are staying at the house so much...

I'd be interested in seeing a link to where you got that information about SM & BM's relationship and the family dynamics. If it's a RUMOR that Terri & Desiree are best friends and what not, then I think we should respect the moderator's request that RUMORS not be perpetuated here.

Thanks.

 

[txsvicki]

Can't FB status remarks also be set to be seen only by friends?

 

[Wendy101]

I would find it very suspicious if a woman had 3 children to care for and in a timeframe of 18 months, that same woman is down to one child to care for unknown reasons.

 

[winterrose]

Can't FB status remarks also be set to be seen only by friends?

You know,I've not even checked into that,mine is private as any site with kids pics should be,but that I don't know.

 

[WholeLottaRosie]

Oh I understand what you are saying.
and I beleive this is okay to talk about because we were told by our lovely Mods that we could talk about suspicious behaviors.

Is it suspicious to anyone else that only random comments were made until the day Kyron came up missing... BEFORE he was known to be missing to post that picture after not really engaging to much before hand?

No, not to me. I post a fair amount of pictures on my private FB. They are only accessible to friends though. It is a great way to share them. Although I have very few of my children there as I don't know who everyone I am friends with has given accessibility to on pix. So I suppose if one got into my albums via someone else's FB, they would think I don't think much of my kids. LOL. They would be very wrong.

I also post what I guess would be random comments, not many in fact, if one were to look at my wall. However, I do message with friends via FB a great deal. Some of us just don't post a lot of personal stuff on the wall - I guess even with privacy settings set to friends only, I don't want it all on the wall - every friend doesn't need to to see everything. So even friends just glancing at my wall would say the same about me, nothing much of substance there. Although I don't play games there, some friends do. Having said that, I have a couple friends who post EVERYTHING and post a lot of pix daily from their mobiles.

I read the FB in question a few days before it went private and read back pretty far and didn't see anything that seemed suspicious to me.

 

[darlin gal]

Can't FB status remarks also be set to be seen only by friends?

Yes, you can set everything you publish to be viewed only by friends, by friends and their friends or by everyone.

 

[joshiesmom]

For those who are wondering if perhaps Desiree showed up early to get Kyron & took him from the school, here is a link to an interview done with Tony & Desiree's next-door neighbor on June 7th. The neighbor states that both Desiree and Tony were frantic to leave as soon as they got the call that Kyron was missing.

That, to me, says both bio-mom and stepdad were almost 300 miles away at the time Kyron went missing.

http://localnewscomesfirst.com/index.php?option=com_seyret&task=videodirectlink&Itemid=431&id=5169

 

[bernie40]

When you upload pics to a FB album,you have an option to "publish" or skip.If you publish,they go on your home page,but if you skip they go just on your album.If your album is set to private,even if your fb is public,only friends or you can see them.It's however you have it set on.

I just looked back at my status updates on my FB...wondering did I mention any one of my four children more than the others, etc. and it appears that I do mention the ones who are more challenging/spirited more often than the others. It has been said that Kyron was a really good kid, so perhaps that's why he wasn't mentioned (in status updates) by SM?

 

[Calliope]

Yes, you can set everything you publish to be viewed only by friends, by friends and their friends or by everyone.

Also you can customize it to be viewable only to certain people or just you and no one else.

 

[winterrose]

Can't FB status remarks also be set to be seen only by friends?

I think this is what can be done...

.How do I filter my Wall?
There are three ways you can filter your Wall: [Your Name] + Friends....
There are three ways you can filter your Wall:
1.[Your Name] + Friends. This default filter displays your own Wall posts, posts made by your friends, and stories generated by your activity on Facebook.
2.Just [Your Name]. This filter includes any posts that you have made to your Wall and stories generated by your activity on Facebook.
3.Just Friends. This filter displays all posts that your friends have made on your Wall.

 

[sofia76]

Respectfully shortened.
Maybe this accounts for the statement in Kaine's email.???
"Don't talk to the media if approached."

Well if there is anything even remotely unconventional about their friendship or any of the relationships in that family, the rest of the country certainly wouldn't be able to handle it. So I could see that.

 

[darlin gal]

No, not to me. I post a fair amount of pictures on my private FB. They are only accessible to friends though. It is a great way to share them. Although I have very few of my children there as I don't know who everyone I am friends with has given accessibility to on pix. So I suppose if one got into my albums via someone else's FB, they would think I don't think much of my kids. LOL. They would be very wrong.

I also post what I guess would be random comments, not many in fact, if one were to look at my wall. However, I do message with friends via FB a great deal. Some of us just don't post a lot of personal stuff on the wall - I guess even with privacy settings set to friends only, I don't want it all on the wall - every friend doesn't need to to see everything. So even friends just glancing at my wall would say the same about me, nothing much of substance there. Although I don't play games there, some friends do. Having said that, I have a couple friends who post EVERYTHING and post a lot of pix daily from their mobiles.

I read the FB in question a few days before it went private and read back pretty far and didn't see anything that seemed suspicious to me.

I agree.

I also read the FB in question before it went private and saw nothing suspicious. There were mostly pictures of the little one (which is normal with a little one, I took more pictures of my son from birth to 3 than I did in his older years) but there were many pictures of Kyron, his brother, his dad and more than a couple family photos.

 

[darlin gal]

Also you can customize it to be viewable only to certain people or just you and no one else.

Yup! You are correct hon!

You can make a special list of selected friends/family members and only share with them. The rest of your friend list won't see those postings.

 

[winterrose]

I just looked back at my status updates on my FB...wondering did I mention any one of my four children more than the others, etc. and it appears that I do mention the ones who are more challenging/spirited more often than the others. It has been said that Kyron was a really good kid, so perhaps that's why he wasn't mentioned (in status updates) by SM?

I also notice people mention babies more,like the cute thing they said today or cutting another tooth,etc.

 

[WholeLottaRosie]

Can't FB status remarks also be set to be seen only by friends?

Yes, they sure can.

 

[sofia76]

*knocking on door just down from Kyron's class*

Hey, can you help me please? I'm late and I don't want my little boy to get in trouble because I forgot to bring his exhibit in. I have it over here in the car, it won't take but a minute if you don't mind holding the door open for me. Did you do an project too? What did you do it on? Frogs! How cool! Could you get the box out of the back seat? Yeah, that one on the floor there! Thanks!

*slam*

That gave me terrible chills, Calliope. I am hugging my little one close tonight.

 

[Calliope]

You know,I've not even checked into that,mine is private as any site with kids pics should be,but that I don't know.

I mentioned a ways back my daughter has her albums with photos of my grandson customized so they're viewable only by certain people. Not all of her friends can view them.

 

[winterrose]

For those who are wondering if perhaps Desiree showed up early to get Kyron & took him from the school, here is a link to an interview done with Tony & Desiree's next-door neighbor on June 7th. The neighbor states that both Desiree and Tony were frantic to leave as soon as they got the call that Kyron was missing.

That, to me, says both bio-mom and stepdad were almost 300 miles away at the time Kyron went missing.

http://localnewscomesfirst.com/index.php?option=com_seyret&task=videodirectlink&Itemid=431&id=5169

You know,I don't think many,at all,are questioning about Desiree,especially after seeing her at the presser the first time.I guess there have been online,but it would be pretty rare.

 

[WholeLottaRosie]

I mentioned a ways back my daughter has her albums with photos of my grandson customized so they're viewable only by certain people. Not all of her friends can view them.

I saw that and plan to look into doing that first thing tomorrow.

Good night all, and, I will again pray that Kryon is found safe.

Rosie

 

[winterrose]

I mentioned a ways back my daughter has her albums with photos of my grandson customized so they're viewable only by certain people. Not all of her friends can view them.

Oh,I didn't know you could do that,that's cool,thank you.