GUILTY PA - Ebony Dorsey, 14, Ambler, 6 Dec 2007

[scrapbooker]

He admitted to the murder, but not the rape.

 

[kk's mom]

More on what happened....
http://abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story?section=news/local&id=5822597

 

[kk's mom]

Why would this mother allow this man to go and get her daughter after she knew he smoked crack all night long? WTF???

 

[kk's mom]

OMG, this guy is a *ng a-hole. Now he's blaming Ebony for what he did......
http://www.nbc10.com/news/14810173/detail.html?dl=mainclick

 

[opme]

Why would this mother allow this man to go and get her daughter after she knew he smoked crack all night long? WTF???

and knowing that he was "wired"? WTF? or for that matter letting him be around the baby? So let me get this straight.. he is married, dating Ebony's mom, has a young child, smokes crack.. Why the H*## would she let this loser any where her or more importantly Ebony? I can only figure that she must have been under the influence herself if she thought it was ok for him to smoke crack in front of her and then allow him anywhere near her daughter.. otherwise for the life of me I cant fathom why she had anything to do with him...I am not trying to blame the victims family (though it sounds like it)but I a m trying to understand how this terrible crime could happen and why this man was anywhere near Ebony considering his state of mind..

 

[Cubby]

I'm glad he was caught and admitted to it. How sick he is blaming the victim, though that does not surprise me in the least.

I've noticed Ebony's mother has not commented anywhere. Where was she that night her daughter went with this a$$hole. WTH was mom doing with a married cracky the wonder monkey?
I feel terribly sorry for Ebony's father and friends. The 4yr old daughter... Dad called his daughter everyday at 7am. I wonder why HE did not have custody of her.

Add me to the list of people tired of hearing about children dying by the hands of their mothers boyfriend.

 

[Filly]

This hit hard here in Philly as it is in close proximity. The thing that keeps resounding in my head is everybody interviewed kept saying how respectful this little girl was of adults. We have to teach our kids that it's not proper to be an all out wretch to adults, BUT you do NOT have to do what every adult says. I never like to blame the mom's who have lost thier children to murder, BUT the creep is a convicted felon, a crack smoker, and a no good, ! What a lovely, sweet girl and taken at the hands of a monster who turns around and blames the kid for her own demise? Hopefully he gets his tail beat in prison.

 

[Filly]

I am a single mom. My daughter is entering her "teens" soon. I have no desire to date. My daughter is my lfe! I read and hear about these stories all the time. What is with these women? Are they gullible? Do they need a man that bad ? I don't get it. I would never, ever, let a man enter my life after hearing of these tragedies. I don't know, I just don't trust a man while I am a single mom with a child.

More power to ya KK's mom. You are few and far between. I was the same exact way. I got so tired ofpeople telling me I was wasting my young years and I should get a "boyfriend". We have our whole lives ahead of us to go dating and meet gentlemen. There's too many nut cases out there. Bless your daughter. She got one heck of a good mom.

 

[kk's mom]

I'm glad he was caught and admitted to it. How sick he is blaming the victim, though that does not surprise me in the least.

I've noticed Ebony's mother has not commented anywhere. Where was she that night her daughter went with this a$$hole. WTH was mom doing with a married cracky the wonder monkey?
I feel terribly sorry for Ebony's father and friends. The 4yr old daughter... Dad called his daughter everyday at 7am. I wonder why HE did not have custody of her.

Add me to the list of people tired of hearing about children dying by the hands of their mothers boyfriend.

From what I understand, he took Ebony to his apt Thurs night so she she could spend the night there, with his child, so he can then go back to Ebony's house to spend the night with her mother. Sounds like they both smoked crack all night as Ebony's mother indicated he was "wired". SHE then allows this guy to go back to his apt to get Ebony to either bring her back or home or take her to school and it was then that he raped and killed her. I'm so sick about this and totally pissed off at this mother. I have read that she is a serious drug addict.............

 

[kk's mom]

More power to ya KK's mom. You are few and far between. I was the same exact way. I got so tired ofpeople telling me I was wasting my young years and I should get a "boyfriend". We have our whole lives ahead of us to go dating and meet gentlemen. There's too many nut cases out there. Bless your daughter. She got one heck of a good mom.

Thanks Filly. I'm sure this has hit you hard just as it has hit me. I work about 20 min from Ambler. So sad, just so damn sad. I am 46 years old and like I said, I have no desire to date. When my daughter leaves the nest, if there is a man out there for me then, so be it, that will be great. For now, my daughter needs me and relies on me and that's the way it will be. I will never put anything or anyone before her.

 

[opme]

I am local to this stroy as well and I am so terribly sorry this little girl was stuck with a mom who wasnt there to protect her..intstead she invited the loser in to their lives. Ebony paid the price for that decision..instead of the mom. Apparently the dug use must have destroyed the intellect she had if any.. for if she had any sense he wouldnt have been anywhere near Ebony.
My sister and I both had said we would never date anyone while our children were still licing at home.. only when they leave the nest would we then consider it.. too many wackos out there and many just seeking access to children via their moms.

 

[kk's mom]

I am local to this stroy as well and I am so terribly sorry this little girl was stuck with a mom who wasnt there to protect her..intstead she invited the loser in to their lives. Ebony paid the price for that decision..instead of the mom. Apparently the dug use must have destroyed the intellect she had if any.. for if she had any sense he wouldnt have been anywhere near Ebony.
My sister and I both had said we would never date anyone while our children were still licing at home.. only when they leave the nest would we then consider it.. too many wackos out there and many just seeking access to children via their moms.

Agree with you 100%..........though she won't, I think this mom should be held accountable in some way.....

 

[jannuncutt]

More power to ya KK's mom. You are few and far between. I was the same exact way. I got so tired ofpeople telling me I was wasting my young years and I should get a "boyfriend". We have our whole lives ahead of us to go dating and meet gentlemen. There's too many nut cases out there. Bless your daughter. She got one heck of a good mom.

People said the same thing to me. Some people think that you should only worry when you have a daughter. Not so. I was the same way with my one and only child, my son. He is now twenty --two (lol, and I am still single). It was not a waste of my youth or time or whatever, - it was a joy!!!! I love being a Mother to my son more than anything else in this world!

I am really glad that I am not in the room and any where near Ebony's (so-called) mother right now!!!!!

 

[Filly]

People said the same thing to me. Some people think that you should only worry when you have a daughter. Not so. I was the same way with my one and only child, my son. He is now twenty --two (lol, and I am still single). It was not a waste of my youth or time or whatever, - it was a joy!!!! I love being a Mother to my son more than anything else in this world!

I am really glad that I am not in the room and any where near Ebony's (so-called) mother right now!!!!!

You are 100% right, J. How many times do we read about some creep who courted a mother of boys just so he could get close to the boys? Many a pedophile count on that. They figure they can easily woo a single mom. Plus they think playing the male role model bit will give them all the time they need alone with our children. I have great respect for you, J and KK's mom as well.

 

[Filly]

Well, seems like Ebony's mom is a tad cocky. Here's an interview with her that's in today's Philadelphia Daily News. She says she was with this monster for FOUR YEARS! I thought he was married. To somebody else. Not a pretty read, but that's just my opinion.http://www.philly.com/dailynews/local/20071213_Mom__My_boyfriends_a_monster.html

 

[CrimeHater]

The dad would be the last person I would assume would be an absentee father. It seems he was the one person with stability in Ebony's life. Now that poor man has had his only child take from him.
As for the mother calling her boyfriend a monster to me she goes hand in hand! She did cocaine and knew he was smoking crack... seems to me he is not the only monster! She opened that door for her child or children!
PLUS it seems he was married as well...and they were together for four years??
My prayers go to Ebony's father. I know now Ebony is with her great grandmother in Heaven.

 

[Filly]

I was praying and praying they would find this little girl alive. How does this make any sense? You're dating a married man for four years. You allow your own child to babysit his child? I mean did the man's wife know this? What if the wife came home early and finds the mistresses child babysitting her child? Him, he was probably so out of his mind Lord could even guess what was going through his head, but her own mother? I so don't want to judge the lady, but that takes alot of guts to give an interview and make like this is all normal. Not to mention this is on a school night. If it all happened the way she says it did then she should have took her butt over to that apartment. You knew the guy was smoking a ton of crack yet you allowed him to go back and retrieve your child? That's just wrong. Plain wrong. Well, she has to live with that the rest of her life.

 

[Filly]

A Philadelphia coulmnist wrote this article for yesterday's Daly News In Philly. She pretty much came right out and said that Ebony's mom should be held accountable. I have to agree on the aspect both the mom and her family are saying "She/I made a mistake". Ummmm, no your child was murdered at the hands of your dealer/lover who ya had your child babysitting the married man's child. It caused this little girls death!http://www.philly.com/dailynews/opinion/20071214_Christine_M__Flowers___MOMMIE_DEAREST.html

 

[Filly]

Police say the monster who murdered Ebony was questioned in 2006 in regards to a murder of three people in Philadelphia. He was a home health care worker for a quadropalegic man. This man was murdered along with two other family members. NOt surprisingly a rape charge was added along with the other charges on this creep in regards to dear Ebony. Our media had word they are looking to charge her mother with a few things. One including a drug charge.http://abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story?section=news/local&id=5836192

 

[Cubby]

Thank you for the updates Filly. Mom was involved with this man for a long time. It's pretty apparent this man's issues weren't something new. While I feel terribly sorry for the dad, I can't help but wonder if he was really blind to all these issues or what. Why didn't he, or had he tried to get custody of Ebony himself? He obviously wasn't an absent father.

If my child were living with a crack user and in an environment where the custodial parent was clearly making choices which put my child in a dangerous environment, I'd be in front of a judge for an emergency custodial hearing and going for full custody and supervised visitation- if any- with the other parent.

Just a thought. Which I had to express............
I mean no disrespect by it, I just wonder.