DairyGirl is correct. Starving babies are quiet and lethargic. One of the most chilling things is the quiet in refugee camps where children are starving to death. They don't scream or cry. They just fade away. Filly's right too, peeing is essential. You want LOTS of wet diapers. For breast-feeding moms, there is a period of time when the milk has not come in fully yet and the baby is typically getting frustrated. That's where older moms and nursing coaches can really help, as it's easy to succumb to the temptation of the bottle. Babies can go several days with just a little colostrum (that's why it's so nutrient rich). Almost all doctors, midwives, and nursing coaches will ask you to hold off on the water bottles IF (big IF, here) there are still wet diapers. One of the downsides of disposable diapers is that it's actually hard to tell when they are wet. Many also have are "baby-powder" scented so you can't tell by smell. Nurses will actually weigh the diapers to tell if the baby is peeing appropriately. If there's not enough urine output, most will advise a little water, especially if the weather is hot but they want that baby working on getting that milk. That's what sets up a great and healthy nursing experience.
That said, I'm going to guess that this mom wasn't nursing. She has a number of other children, she's under great stress, and she just had twins. Nursing multiples is a challenging undertaking and requires huge amounts of food and fluids for the mom and lots of support from family. The reports say that the boy was 2 months old. Well, 6 weeks is the growth spurt--when babies eat almost constantly. Maybe, but I just don't think so.
So, if she was bottle feeding, I would assume that she wasn't feeding this twin (for whatever reason) or that he was feeding inappropriately. Many babies have poor suck reflex, especially preemies, multiples and those with any form of challenge at birth. A poor suck reflex causes failure to thrive. That's not homicide. It's not even homicide, I don't think, if the mom doesn't seek help in time. I really believe that this mother chose to withhold food from this infant or harmed him in various other ways. JMO
Filly--This will get you. When I was younger and acting as a doula, I had my birthchildren. Once, I was close to a due date for myself and one of my moms went into labor. I sent a replacement--my husband. He's probably coached twenty moms and he's the best. He just doula'd for our newest granddaughter's mother a couple months ago. Her parents kind of stood back with wide eyes. Sweet Guy said he was really disappointed in himself that he'd worn Berkies that day. Birth can be a bit messy, you know. It's an amazingly rewarding thing to do. I loved it.
That said, I'm going to guess that this mom wasn't nursing. She has a number of other children, she's under great stress, and she just had twins. Nursing multiples is a challenging undertaking and requires huge amounts of food and fluids for the mom and lots of support from family. The reports say that the boy was 2 months old. Well, 6 weeks is the growth spurt--when babies eat almost constantly. Maybe, but I just don't think so.
So, if she was bottle feeding, I would assume that she wasn't feeding this twin (for whatever reason) or that he was feeding inappropriately. Many babies have poor suck reflex, especially preemies, multiples and those with any form of challenge at birth. A poor suck reflex causes failure to thrive. That's not homicide. It's not even homicide, I don't think, if the mom doesn't seek help in time. I really believe that this mother chose to withhold food from this infant or harmed him in various other ways. JMO
Filly--This will get you. When I was younger and acting as a doula, I had my birthchildren. Once, I was close to a due date for myself and one of my moms went into labor. I sent a replacement--my husband. He's probably coached twenty moms and he's the best. He just doula'd for our newest granddaughter's mother a couple months ago. Her parents kind of stood back with wide eyes. Sweet Guy said he was really disappointed in himself that he'd worn Berkies that day. Birth can be a bit messy, you know. It's an amazingly rewarding thing to do. I loved it.