Was it ever determined who the woman was at the antique mall? The one that Ray would walk and talk with, go to a different store, then meet back up with in the hall of the mall? Since he was seen to apparently be waiting for someone in the parking lot, maybe they were both waiting for someone else to show up? I still think he must have left voluntarily and didn't want to hurt his girlfriend or family for some reason. If authorities are telling everything, looks like there'd have been more evidence on the home computer or somewhere. If I remember correctly they found evidence on the home computer of looking up how to destroy a hard drive.
Hi, Vickie.
First, so good to see you here.
I agree with you on both points.. That a woman is
possibly involved somehow, and that his home PC
may have given them pertinent info. The chances are great that we absolutely do not yet know if they found anything else of value on the home PC that he and Patty used together. It took them years to tell us that they found the searches. :banghead:
I keep thinking "
If he wanted to know how to destroy a hard drive, WHY didn't he look it up on the computer that ended up in the river?"
Was the HD or another portion of the laptop already inoperable for some unknown reason? Was he hiding the laptop from Patty in a way of " Oh, that old thing is upstairs in the closet in the old leather case, but you know I use my new work PC and this new desktop we have together, honey".. OR did he leave a clue to see how smart the police were of whom he didn't always seem to respect the collective IQs?

Or did he search, perhaps erase his HD with the program he is said to have purchased to do so, and something else happened to his laptop?
Back to Occam's Razor style of thinking--Since it has been determined by LE that Ray and not Patty made those searches and taking into account his seemingly very clear comments to various people about erasing the HD of the older model county- issued laptop for some time, then I think he either didn't KNOW that Google searches would or could be recovered ( he was woefully tech-impaired, they say, just like they say he was financial- investment impaired),
or he did leave a Hansel and Gretel type morsel of his intent. It has been said by some of his friends that ( paraphrasing perhaps slightly
" Disappearing is just like something he would do to show the local LE how he could always outsmart them". )
I THINK that quote was not from Investigation Discovery's " Disappeared" segment on him anyway. I think Dateline did one on him that had more interviews and Steve Sloane said that in his talking head segment.
Do you go to You Tube? Look up his Disappeared show. One hour ( minus commercial ad time) is devoted to his disappearance, and it has been slightly updated to include a couple of bits about the Sandusky sex abuse case/ cases.
I only have a link to the older segment.
This is it..
Disappeared - A Family's Curse - YouTube
It's extremely watchable. I think it covers the broad outline of what is known. There are a few possible small errors, but it doesn't seem slanted to one theory or the other to me.. Just that he is missing. I think Patty's demeanor is very interesting to watch in her talking head ( TH) segments. She seems to be both tearful at times, and also visibly angry. ( JJ explains that this was taped right after she became aware of the potential MW with Ray in Lewisburg).
I don't know if I would really hold anger at a person I said was my " soulmate" if the other option was that he was dead and his remains were probably lying out in the open like an old dead dog in a remote location. That reminds me- the segment also makes it very clear that the Susquehanna river was searched starting the next day, and they even show cadaver ( or other scent dogs) perched on the bows of the boats in their life jackets. RME.
However, it is somewhat questionable whether the wetlands preserve just past the other side of the bridge was searched on foot. No grid searches have ever been shown. I don't think they were done, to be honest.
The only other evidence besides potential witness sightings which might point to a woman being with him or in his car is the presence of cigarette ash. He was a vocal anti-smoking person, like I am. But someone burned a cig. in his car
or tracked a very small bit of ash in on the passenger's side shortly before police opened it. ( They report the smell of cigarette, meaning it hadn't been there long and there was probably more smoky smell before then).
Do you know about the young blonde big- haired lady possibly seen by a Mrs. Ivy Butterworth of Milton PA sitting with Ray on the day he disappeared? It's a new development, as in- within the past 30 days. Her daughter was in her early 20's and working at the SOS.
Lord Chatterly has graciously provided us with the entire story, near the end of Ray's thread #7. Ivy Butterworth came forward when Dateline was there taping a new show about Ray. JJ says the show will air next Friday night.
I think Ray and possibly a woman threw the laptop parts into the Susquehanna river because the PC was the last link to his old ID.. He left the other traceable techno things because they weren't legally his and because he didn't need them: Patti's car with the PFo vanity license plate and his county- issued cell phone.
I don't think it's a huge mystery about either part of the PC- he left what he didn't need and took his wallet, sunglasses and, I think, a watch.
IF the woman went with him, then I suppose they drove out of Lewisburg together. JJ counters with " No one Ray knew is missing".
I counter with " Ray may have had people in his life who were not known to the other people in his life" ( More than 6 degrees of separation, IOW).
OR she was not a helpful presence, but a malevolent one. We don't know, but I suspect that LE or the FBI has a good idea by now.
I'm starting to give some sort of witness protection program a second thought. I had never really considered it as a possibility until it was determined recently that Ray's fingerprint card is apparently not in the database with his other info at NamUS. I would think that if they are entered into another database, then NamUS would have a notation of " available via CODIS" or wherever, or if they are being withheld from the public, it would say " withheld- contact Bellefonte Police Department for specifics".
I hope I have been accurate. JJ's blog which can be found here:
http://www.centredaily.com/ under the heading " Sporadic Posts" or through a search on the term " Gricar" is very detailed. IMO, some ideas are his opinion only, but no one that I am aware of has put more time and effort into keeping his case before the public.
Have you read Karen Arnold's website " Ladies and Gentlemen of the Jury? This is the link to the multi-page " legal brief".
http://sites.google.com/site/gricardisappearance/
I read it when it was newly posted to the Internet, and was so PO'd by her calling Patty only by the term " the Paramour" that I discarded her accounts of what she saw, heard and knew from 18 years of working with Ray.
It was a mistake to discount her words. They have a great deal of merit, IMO.
We have recently had a discussion here ( again, near the end of thread
#7 on this case) about how we all don't like the term as it means " illicit lover" per Merriam Webster and she was not such a person. After pushing past my distaste for that one thing, I have learned quite a lot about Ray Gricar and how Karen Arnold says he was acting and so forth before he disappeared. I haven't learned why Karen dislikes Patty, though.
Sorry this is so long. We have posted together many times in the past, and I felt a need to fill in the blanks somewhat.
IF I have made errors, they are honest ones. I have tried to summarize what we have been interested in recently ( other than the rate at which 2 objects entering the water will sink, float and whistle "Dixie", LOL).
Good work was done on the laptop and HD sinking also, so J/K.
I hope we can go on now to discuss some other things, such as why Ray might have taken a detour to or through Centre Hall, and what he may have done there or nearby if he did detour.
So many unanswered questions,and so little public info.
I don't even know if Stacy Parks- Miller and the special task force are still doing anything.. reminds me a lot of the JonBenet case and Mary Lacey's promises and flurry of press releases when she was first elected in Boulder.. turned out to be just smoke and mirrors, with one nut by the name of John Mark Carr thrown into the mix..