I think most people don't see how it is working for them. Their granddaughter is dead, their daughter will probably never walk out into the free world again, and George is suicidal/under observation. Most marriages that go through a crisis of this magnitude come undone.
Is the opposite of undone "done" or is it "done up"? In any case, this crisis did not fracture the Anthony marriage. Like everything else about the Anthony family, it has sadly pinned their life down onto the glass slide on the microscope of public inspection and shone light onto the cracks and flaws and every other little tiny fissure they hoped to keep out of the public eye while they practiced the "fake it til you make it" philosophy of many couples around the country who have the luxury of keeping it private. What we see are those fractures and the tenuous hold that they have all had on the illusion of their family, and all that happened before they invited the world to watch.
While Casey's behavior was the precipitating factor for bringing this whole lifestyle of the Anthony's up, it is the Anthony's themselves who have chosen to make it a public spectacle. They have surrounded themselves with people whose motives are questionable, whose goals are to exploit them as long as possible, and who by necessity will never have their best interests at heart, and have pushed away those people who truly truly did.
Whatever their reasons for continuing selling tee shirts and bracelets of their deceased granddaughter is something they have decided works for them. So I understand "how it is working for them." Whatever their reasons for having decided to confront the people on their front lawn or drive to Blanchard Park to confront LP, I understand "how it's working for them."
Whatever the reasons they have decided that what they say to LE, reporters, strangers on their front lawn, is on a sliding scale of truth....sometimes sliding right off that scale....I understand "how it's working for them."
Whatever the reasons that George determined that leaving his wife to worry about him for hours until he is taken to a hospital, reaching out to people with messages of ending his life, I assure you most heartily, I understand "how it's working for them."
But what I do not understand about "how it's working for them" is how they can do any one of these things and expect people to constantly give them leeway to "grieve in their own way." Because each and every one of these ways is done in the public eye. And now People Magazine, that paragon of ......um, journalism.....has found people who are willing to talk about the Anthony's. We can speculate that People contacted the Anthony's directly and NOTHING in the past 7 months would indicate that it would be an outrageous supposition. We can point to Cindy's brother, or indeed anyone in this twisted tale of family and we could probably be right 75% of the time.
"How it's working for them" has been quite a tale they've been telling.