My mind has gone back over DMs impact statement, making me realize how amazing it is that she was the survivor to BK. DM is the antithesis of BK. All emotion, not void. She let it all penetrate him, and unfortunately what he took away was probably something close to gratification. But ignore that.
DM has taken a lot of flack for her actions or maybe I should say inactions. I do believe she was self-soothing on the internet for part of the night (we have all done it). I have a new found respect for DM. She needs to give herself more credit, SHE STAYED ALIVE.
She was unable to understand what was going on in her own home, did not report it to the police, questioned reality deeply while locked in emotion and unable to reach out to those who could help her. Contrast that to BK, who crept into a strangers home to remove their life force, out of anger, jealousy, resentment, cruel curiosity, and an inability to feel anything for anyone possibly even himself.
DM should work very hard to be proud of herself, perfect actions or not. She allowed herself to be human. BK does not know how to do that. JMOO
DM has taken a lot of flack for her actions or maybe I should say inactions. I do believe she was self-soothing on the internet for part of the night (we have all done it). I have a new found respect for DM. She needs to give herself more credit, SHE STAYED ALIVE.
She was unable to understand what was going on in her own home, did not report it to the police, questioned reality deeply while locked in emotion and unable to reach out to those who could help her. Contrast that to BK, who crept into a strangers home to remove their life force, out of anger, jealousy, resentment, cruel curiosity, and an inability to feel anything for anyone possibly even himself.
DM should work very hard to be proud of herself, perfect actions or not. She allowed herself to be human. BK does not know how to do that. JMOO

