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I had to do something similar. It actually took me a couple of years AFTER I cut off communications to fully comprehend and accept that I did indeed do the right thing. Even when I knew it in my mind, my heart would wonder. Finally, my heart and mind were in agreement....and I was at peace. Manipulation works, even when you know you're being manipulated. One benefit is that I recognize manipulation from a mile away now and keep it a mile away from me (mostly).Abusers are very predictable once you know the pattern. When i blocked my abusive brothers phone number he sent me a text message saying my deceased mom would be upset with how i was treating him. My response was to block his texts. No contact and moving on with your life is what i recommend with those kind of people.
