I peeked in this thread and I'm shocked (and yet not surprised) to see speculation up the yingyang on MM's emotional health, right along with the typical armchair psychiatric diagnosis based on the esteemed peer reviewed academic journals such as "The Daily Mail," "People," and other gossip rags.
Some families are highly dysfunctional and some much less so. You simply cannot know all that has gone on to know why a situation is the way it is in the present.
Unless someone knows her personally and is a credentialed mental health professional who has evaluated and tested MM, claiming MM is any particular personality or has any particular personality disorder is right up there with insisting the alien abduction stories in the National Enquirer are fact-based science.
It's inappropriate to be declaring medical and emotional dx about another person like that, not to mention simply incorrect. NO ONE here knows any these people, including MM, nor has any inside knowledge of the relationships, history, dynamics, etc. IMO this is made-up fantasy, rumor-mongering, gossip, and ultimately projection, all for the sake of self-entertainment.
With all due respect, have you read both threads? If so, you would notice that the vast, vast majority of members posting here have NOT engaged in armchair speculation and diagnosis, so it is not exactly “up the yingyang.” Perhaps it would be best to just report the offensive posts rather than insult and scold the rest of us. Thanks.
But nylons are appropriate for more formal occasions IMO, even for people can get away without.
