Q&A Only FOR AY (Railbugfreak) -- NO Discussion

[WhyaDuck?]

No one, including verified locals, insiders or experts, are ever under obligation to visit here or post here. Understandably, people have many other things to do - this might be doubly true for people in such circumstances.

If/when railbug ever chooses to post here, or if he chooses not to, that is his right.

 

[wenwe4]

Railbugfreak,
I just wanted to say that I believe you when you say you don't trust a thing that comes from EB. I think that the last few days with the unsealing of the warrents and the slanderous things that have been said have not (yet?) been proven. I think EB will say anything to take the blame off of her and place it on someone else. I think as time goes on your crediblility will be even more supported as more lies come out. At this point, I just want to thank you for answering questions that you feel comfortable with and helping us to try and wrap our heads around this case.

 

[WhyaDuck?]

I have decided to close this thread for now, as there are more than enough questions at the moment.

It will be reopened if railbug wants it to be.

 

[Kimster]

Thread is open in case Railbug would like to answer some questions or post something. :blowkiss:

 

[railbugfreak]

Thread is open in case Railbug would like to answer some questions or post something. :blowkiss:

LOL Thanks I was getting ready to say reopen it. Although it will take all nite to answer but like whyaduck said theres A LOT of the same questions being asked but its ok ill just skip cause im a lil slow well my computer a lil slow lol

 

[railbugfreak]

Hello,

Thank you for taking the time to post. Many members here have been in a similar place to where you are now so you are with an empathetic group. I cannot imagine having to read the things people say online in these types of situations. In my own situation it was either just before the commenting online started or I was blissfully unaware of it. We are all appreciative of your efforts to join us here.

The search warrants state that EB had multiple reports filed with DSS dating back to 1999 in regards to her older children. Can you give us any insight to those reports? Past behavior being such an indication of future behavior and all.

And as far as substance abuse, any comments you would like to share about EB or ABs drug use?

DSS was called i think twice while we were together. Both times were out of spite from "family members" that she would talk about behind thier backs and they would find out. While I was with her the kids basically had it made. But Zahra is the only kid that ive seen EB even be disrespectful too. Even my current step children loved her vice versa

 

[Virgogalsue]

Hi Railbug,

I was just wondering whether you went to the memorial tonight? Was AB there?

Thanks xxoo

 

[railbugfreak]

I don't see why it would be anyone's business what music you like or use in a ceremony. I think you should be awarded a medal for putting up with EB I do have a question if you don't want to answer I understand. Was EB ever violent toward you?

HAHA Oh yea she pushed me into a china cabinet once and cut my wrist when i went through the glass.

 

[railbugfreak]

Aaron,

IMO since the jig is up for EB she is telling the truth to save herself from the Death Penalty and her statement of her and AB getting rid of the prosthetic leg is true, this would mean that AB is guilty also, how will you feel if this turns out to be true, since you have befriended him?

Why wouldn't you want to distance yourself from all parties involved, especially since you started a new life with a new wife?

Is it true that EB has Lupus and did you ever hear her complain in the past about joint pain?

EBs biological daughter AF is and has been my wifes best friend, (yes my wife is 2 years older than me and still her bff) kinda hard to distance ourself unless we turn our back on my wifes best friend and the one i still consider my daughter. I met my new wife through AF. My wife is the one that basically took over being a mother/best friend to AF since EB left the kids and went to aussie. both those kids bio dad/dads family has/had nothing to do with them.

 

[mytime]

IIRC, EB's son has had nothing to do with her and her own daugher testified against her during the bond hearing. She stated she feared her mother and moved around alot whle growing up. So in what way do you think they had it made? Can you please be more specific as I am somewhat confused by that statement.

 

[railbugfreak]

Aaron, you have said that you eventually tried to tell Adam that you were not in fact EB's brother but her husband... but why did you ever participate in that lie to begin with, and for so long?

Glad you asked that but what I say isnt gonna matter to most judgmental people. EB started that whole ordeal. I didnt know anything about it till few days before they came back to the states. I told her it would be much easier just to tell the truth but she made me think he was this very jealous/violent/big bad *, Soon after I realized he was just a nice guy with a very big heart.

As far as the neighbor thinking we were brother/sister hell i didnt know about that because I wasnt friends with that nieghbor because he was a biligerent drunk redneck i didnt like him.

 

[railbugfreak]

Hi AY! So nice of you to come here to tell your side of the story. I hope you are doing okay in light of everything that's happened.

I would also like to know the answer to the above question if you could be so kind.

Another question that has been nagging at me are the pics of Zahra on Facebook. You commented on the morning of Oct 8th around 2:00 a.m. (before she was missing) that she deserves so much better and you wish they would sign her over to you. These pics were posted in January, so why did you feel the need to comment on them that particular night/morning the day before Z went "missing".

Thanks again and best of luck with your new wife.

Thanks, We were up late that nite putting some pics on an external hard drive and run across those pics. Yea i admit that is strange timing as far as saying i wish they would sign her over I along with several other family members had said that for months as well as would anyone that knew zahra and knew how EB treated her. (emotionally) No I never seen the physical abuse, yes I called DSS over the Emotional abuse because emotional abuse can be worse than physical abuse at times

 

[Mountain_Kat]

DSS was called i think twice while we were together. Both times were out of spite from "family members" that she would talk about behind thier backs and they would find out. While I was with her the kids basically had it made. But Zahra is the only kid that ive seen EB even be disrespectful too. Even my current step children loved her vice versa

Bolded by me.

Do you have any thoughts on why that might be? I mean, by all accounts, Zahra was an amazing child. :waitasec:

 

[mytime]

If you thought "they" should sign over Zahra to you on October 8th, is it fair to say that AB was not protecting Zahra from EB's emotional abuse. Also, what trigged this reaction? Did AF say something that concerned you?

 

[railbugfreak]

Railbugfreak - it's always interesting to be able to talk to someone who is closely involved in a case.
My questions for you are: Did you ever think about postponing your wedding because of Zahra being presumed dead? Why do you feel that EB & SY could commit such a horrendous crime?

Im going to answer a few questions Ive seen in this one. No I didnt think about postponing because I nor no one can stop thier lives in any case. Zahra wouldnt want that. Second we had postponed our wedding at least twice due to financial reasons and it was before february when we planned on having zahra in the wedding. As far as bridesmaid being expensive, I was going to buy the dress plus we didnt have a very expensive wedding as we couldnt afford it.

 

[sorrell skye]

Thanks, We were up late that nite putting some pics on an external hard drive and run across those pics. Yea i admit that is strange timing as far as saying i wish they would sign her over I along with several other family members had said that for months as well as would anyone that knew zahra and knew how EB treated her. (emotionally) No I never seen the physical abuse, yes I called DSS over the Emotional abuse because emotional abuse can be worse than physical abuse at times

bbm

Railbug - TY so much for being willing to come here. It must be very difficult for you to know that you were so close, and yet so far away from little Zahra.

Question: Are you saying that you reported EB to DSS for what you felt was emotional abuse against Zahra?

 

[railbugfreak]

Railbugfreak, I just wanted to say thank you for coming here - I commend you for that as it takes a lot of courage. I wonder how it must have been for you to have your ex move in across the street? (unless I was misinformed and if so I apologise). There must have been some major thing happen in Feb for you to have blocked EB from your fb account - would you be willing to elaborate? Also - would you tell us more about EB faking her children's illnesses?

EB called my doctor and told a bunch of crap and ended up causing that doc to stop writing pain meds to ANYBODY not just myself. Yes I AM on pain meds, I have rickets as most already know, I have 3 broken bones in my left leg and walk only with a cane. I can take a lot of pain but thiers only so much i can take without medication. No im not a drug addict. Try walking with 3 broke bones without anything to help with pain. Thats why i only put that little clip of the wedding because people tend to make fun of me for the way i walk and i dont take politely to people making fun of anyone

 

[impatientredhead]

DSS was called i think twice while we were together. Both times were out of spite from "family members" that she would talk about behind thier backs and they would find out. While I was with her the kids basically had it made. But Zahra is the only kid that ive seen EB even be disrespectful too. Even my current step children loved her vice versa

Thank you for answering that. I thought, and I certainly may be confused, but I thought we had seen her daughter saying EB was physically abusive to her while growing up?

And I am curious, you seem very confident that AB is a great person and good father and you have never seen physical abuse by EB to Z or her own children.... that would make the leap to killing and dismembering a child a pretty wild one. Kind of a zero to 1080 type of escalation. If AB isn't tied directly to that escalation what do you think is? drugs? mental illness? she hid what she was doing from you and it isn't a huge change from non violent to psychopath?

 

[railbugfreak]

1) Do you know if AB was planning on leaving EB and maybe getting his ducks in a row.

I know your answer would just be conjecture but I think if this is true, it could answer a lot of questions of why.

2) What was up with your posts on Facebook saying something to the affect of, " I hope my ex is happy, no more pills for me"?

3) You said you and EB had a big blow up in February and haven't much talked, if this is so, why were you still posting on FB to each other and playing together in IMVU?

4) Do you think EB could have disposed of Zahra alone?

5) What is your theory on what happened to the beautiful child?

6) Why did you stay with EB for 10 years, if she is as we see her now - evil.

Thanks again!

1) From what I have heard AB was trying to leave EB.
2) Already answered in previous post.
3) I dont hold grudges forever and if I recall correctly it was only a few comments since february, IMVU, I dont know where people is getting there info but I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON IMVU WITH EB OR AB. I had IMVU I hadnt been on in forever if so it was only once or twice looking at homepage and didnt chat with anyone. I was talking to 1 woman (jenny) on IMVU and stopped that late 2008 early 2009.
4) everything is possible.
5) I wont give my theory because im not 100% sure, everyone should take that advice.
6) KIDS, somehow she made me feel sorry for her.

 

[sorrell skye]

DSS was called i think twice while we were together. Both times were out of spite from "family members" that she would talk about behind thier backs and they would find out. While I was with her the kids basically had it made. But Zahra is the only kid that ive seen EB even be disrespectful too. Even my current step children loved her vice versa

I've heard of cases where spiteful people (family members, neighbors, or others) made false reports to Child Protective Services in an attempt to *get revenge* against someone for a perceived wrong. As far as I'm concerned, that's wrong on so many levels, and a gross abuse of the system.

Question: Why do you think EB's daughter expressed fear of her mother & stated that she would have to move out of state if EB was released on bail?