Hi, Micci!
Tell Ging and Bobby that Romi is doing really well. We are slowly increasing his "away time" by taking short trips in the car, and working on leash and accepting it in the back and front yards, as well as setting up the barrier in the driveway so that he can have an expanded view of the universe.
Gracie has been doing her best to help him learn about leashes, generally by taking his leash and dragging him along. LOL. It's interesting, but he's almost more willing (although still very reluctant) when Gracie is holding his leash than when I am, and it's terribly funny to watch.
OTOH, when it's time to return to the back yard, Gracie gets dragged along by *him* in his eagerness to return to his home base.
He is walking around the house now just fine, and last night, after I put him and Grace in bed and I was finishing up in the living room, Romi came toolin' back into the living room and laid at my feet until I was done, and then returned to bed with me.
Romi loves to give hugs; he will come up to me, put his fores on my legs (or my shoulders, if I'm sitting), and move his chest into me. He loves having his back scratched at the same time, and will tilt his head waaaaaaaaaaay back to get the full effects of the scratching and stretching. Gracie just watches, wondering just what is the big deal...when she does that, I fall over. LOL.
He is also using his paws to signal to me when he wants some lovin'. He will wave his front at me, and if I don't respond, he will wave it bigger and bigger, and sometimes will switch paws. Like, "hey, this one isn't working; how about the other one?" LOL.
And he has become seriously possessive about bones. ROFL, and I know it's wrong to let any animal be possessive, but I love that he has one thing - only one! - that he is willing to take a stand for. He is not aggressive with me at all; I can take the bone away from him and he won't do a thing (except look at me with sad eyes), but let Grace even begin to think about it, and he growls.
And, he will go and steal Gracie's bone, sometimes literally out from between her paws, if he's decided that he wants it. She lets him, and then goes and gets his former bone, and chews that. This is a regular trade with them, and it's terribly funny to watch. He will circle her, sniff her, circle her, and then, he'll reach in with his paw, pull the bone to him, grab it up (and sometimes they're very big bones...), and take it to his hearth. Gracie will look around, and then go and get the bone he had been chewing...
One evening, after he'd been pacing around a bit, I looked over to see all the bones - a total of 6 - were in a semi circle in front of him. Now, bear in mind some of these bones were well and truly chewed, nothing left whatsoever. But he still made this little half-circle of bones around his paws, and he was watching Gracie, hoping for a moment of distraction so he could go steal the last one from her.
Gracie is a saint. She totally puts up with that, and never tries to take her bone back...she'll just either give it up or follow him over and get his "used" bone. She is not mean at all, not possessive about it at all...and it's almost like she "gets" what he's doing. I wish she'd explain it to me, 'cause I most certainly don't get it. LOL.
The cats and Romi continue to get along wonderfully. He has not upset a single cat, not chased a single cat, and has not tried to fight with any of them. They accept him, and ignore him (as cats will do), and while interested in them, he doesn't do anything which might create an issue. He's just a very submissive dog, except when it comes to bones. LOL.
Anyway, there's the most current update. Gracie is starting to learn a new trick or two, and while we're working on that, Romi is learning "come" = hugs and back scratches. Since he still doesn't take any treat but the bed time treats, and those are only for bedtime, it's occasionally difficult to convince him that a behavior is the wanted one, but he's learning, slowly. He's beginning to come, and to "hug", like I said before, but that's based on encouraging his natural instinct and not introducing new skills, if that makes sense.
So there you go...Romi fixes. LOL. He's a dear one, just a dear one. And he's really making good strides; slow but good.
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