SC - Heather Elvis, 20, Myrtle Beach, 18 Dec 2013 - #7

[K.jill]

I have a couple of fb friends who have a joint acct with both names on it. In their cases they are 20+years older than me and from a generation that is less computer savvy. They don't post lovey dovey things, even though they obviously love each other very much. Most people who have been together for 10 or more years don't feel the need to post flowery things like...I love redacted redacted more than redacted redacted...maybe on an anniversary but not regularly.

If I were to see a newish couple fb where it seemed only one person posted on with very lovey sweet things...well, I think somebody has been cheating. Reminds me of the guy I dated when I was 17...

Anyway, to me that kind of thing seems transparent and indicates dishonesty.

 

[Topcat]

I would guess it is information that came to light during the officer's initial investigation about why her car was found abandoned at PTL.
That's how I interpreted it.

I think interviews with the room mate (I'm sure her dad provided the name and daughters address) ,who I'm guessing knew of HE's present and past relationships. LE ran the names to get addresses and numbers.

 

[TTF14]

I have a couple of fb friends who have a joint acct with both names on it. In their cases they are 20+years older than me and from a generation that is less computer savvy. They don't post lovey dovey things, even though they obviously love each other very much. Most people who have been together for 10 or more years don't feel the need to post flowery things like...I love redacted redacted more than redacted redacted...maybe on an anniversary but not regularly.

If I were to see a newish couple fb where it seemed only one person posted on with very lovey sweet things...well, I think somebody has been cheating. Reminds me of the guy I dated when I was 17...

Anyway, to me that kind of thing seems transparent and indicates dishonesty.

I have some friends who do this for "religious reasons". They both feel no need to hide anything from their spouse and have heard horror stories about people reconnecting with old flames on Facebook, so they just strive to keep things completely open with each other. I don't think this has anything to do with this case, but just throwing it out there!

ETA: The only reason I said "religious reasons" is because every couple I know who does this.....they are devout Christians. They don't want the "temptation".

 

[bestill]

I find couples facebook pages very interesting, normally it's only one spouse posting, rarely have I seen it be operated by both spouses.

 

[Topcat]

I was just saying what comes to mind when I see a couples FB page-any couples FB page. That's all.

not a critique so please don't take it as such ....just throwing out another perspective..

 

[escape2sc]

I can't come close to imagining how the Elvis family must feel . I am sure I would lose my mind if one of my children were missing. I would want to be going everywhere to look for her, be at the police station 24/7 waiting on THE tip to come in that brings her home. I would want to be at her apartment in case she returned, be at the family home in case she returned. call her phone every second hoping she answers. etc , etc , etc.. I don't know how a parent survives something like this. I do not know where a parent finds the will power to not act on information LE has about someone who may not only know what happened to my daughter , but may have been the very person to harm my daughter. I am not sure " will power " is the correct word.. I don't know what word one would use to describe whatever strength is holding Mr. Elvis from confronting people who know Heather, who saw her last. Maybe it is the strength of love for your daughter and not wanting to jeopardize her safety or her justice.

 

[TTF14]

I find couples facebook pages very interesting, normally it's only one spouse posting, rarely have I seen it be operated by both spouses.

I've seen both couples post. It really annoys me that they never say who it is that is posting, or whose birthday it is, etc. Why can't they just make sure they each have each other's passwords? OK, back on topic....

 

[Topcat]

I find couples facebook pages very interesting, normally it's only one spouse posting, rarely have I seen it be operated by both spouses.

my wife and I have separate FB pages and except for pictures of my daughter,house,vacations(of which neither one of us are in the pictures) you wouldn't know we were married to each other, LOL.

 

[EmmaRose]

I saw it and took screen shots.

I saw it as well. I'm glad Heather spoke to her roommate that night.

 

[pjgrrrl]

Looks like my intuition was correct from the PR. Everyone fought with my logic; but it seems that's how most of you are thinking now. It's quite obvious from her tweets what was going on. On July 7th - her tweet(s) says it all. There's three to be exact.
I feel as if her spirit is alive;.... I hope she returns safe but I keep biting my lip.
P.s. I have the explicit PR and it makes me sad.

 

[PeterThomasFan]

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[jellybeanz]

Wind, rain and other factors can derail scent dogs, but our experts usually tell us it is all down to proper training and use of the right dogs for each task, jMO.

Ive read on various cases on here and in articles linked to dog tracking that the rain can bring out scents that can be weeks or even months old.
I found this amazing at first, but then on reflection it kinda made sense.
Too much sun can bake the scent into the dirt, only for the rain to come along and release all those scents for the doggies....

I feel that #3 doesn't apply here, as some spouses have businesses that are web based, some have more than one.

I've even seen some spouses having their own business page and their own personal page, whilst the other spouse is happy to make all the posts on the 'couples' account, but never feel the need to have their own personal page.
Often says a lot of the dynamics of the relationship.

 

[CarolinaAsh]

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Never went to one of these shows before boycotting HOB a few years ago.

I've always wanted to go to one, not necessarily there, but in general. or a weekend one.

 

[NewYork625]

March 25 was an interesting day. Feeling sorry for herself and scathing words for someone and a wish to be in Florida... wonder why she wanted to be in florida....

https://twitter.com/HeatherElvis

Similar type post (actually retweet) Feb 20. https://twitter.com/HeatherElvis

 

[5CentsWorth]

On one of HE's SM accounts, she posted a pic with her & another girl on 12/13. It seems to look more like the picture the MSM posted of her driving the stick shift. She also wrote a poem to go with the pic. If you access this account of hers, it will be the very first picture on the page. That should give some reference as to what she looked like in December, as compared to how she does in the pics being posted in MSM.

It's her fb account.

https://www.facebook.com/heatherachellelvis?fref=ts

Those are lyrics from a Matchbox 20 song, She's So Mean.

 

[bestill]

I can't come close to imagining how the Elvis family must feel . I am sure I would lose my mind if one of my children were missing. I would want to be going everywhere to look for her, be at the police station 24/7 waiting on THE tip to come in that brings her home. I would want to be at her apartment in case she returned, be at the family home in case she returned. call her phone every second hoping she answers. etc , etc , etc.. I don't know how a parent survives something like this. I do not know where a parent finds the will power to not act on information LE has about someone who may not only know what happened to my daughter , but may have been the very person to harm my daughter. I am not sure " will power " is the correct word.. I don't know what word one would use to describe whatever strength is holding Mr. Elvis from confronting people who know Heather, who saw her last. Maybe it is the strength of love for your daughter and not wanting to jeopardize her safety or her justice.

I don't think I could have remained silent on the reports that were released yesterday. I admire their strength and grace, they have really handled this with restraint. I agree with you I don't know if I could have done that.

 

[escape2sc]

In one of the thread's there was a report of Horry County Police call log. Does anyone have the link handy ?

 

[teri037]

Looks like my intuition was correct from the PR. Everyone fought with my logic; but it seems that's how most of you are thinking now. It's quite obvious from her tweets what was going on. On July 7th - her tweet(s) says it all. There's three to be exact.
I feel as if her spirit is alive;.... I hope she returns safe but I keep biting my lip.
P.s. I have the explicit PR and it makes me sad.

To me, in the July 7 tweets, she speaks of this person as someone new to her, someone she has just noticed recently. Not someone she has known for a long time. I'm still fighting your logic.

 

[pjgrrrl]

To me, in the July 7 tweets, she speaks of this person as someone new to her, someone she has just noticed recently. Not someone she has known for a long time. I'm still fighting your logic.

Hmm. The maintenance guy... Then fast forward to July 10th. Seems logical to me. Btw. What makes you say "someone she's known for a long time"? Who says how long she knew him.

 

[jellybeanz]

I've always wanted to go to one, not necessarily there, but in general. or a weekend one.

Ya, me too!!