SC SC - Marjorie 'Gayle' McCaffrey, 36, West Ashley, 18 March 2012 *husband guilty*

[cluciano63]

"He is a fire-arms enthusiast..." don't like hearing that about a man with a missing wife, JMO...
(from article linked two posts up)

 

[Shelby2]

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I'm curious why isn't he supporting his children?

Not sure, but she is the only person listed as owning their home..

 

[mayqueen]

http://www.postandcourier.com/article/20120321/PC1602/303219920

During the dinner Saturday night, Gillespie sensed some tension. Bob McCaffrey received a phone call during the meal that upset his wife.

"We had a nice meal, but they both were upset. His eyes were red," Gillespie said. "We put the dishes in the sink and left."

I wonder who the phone call was from / what it was about??

 

[beachlvr0810]

Here's my thoughts on what may have happened...this is just my opinion.

Bob loses his job and takes a construction job 5 hours away, now I'm assuming he stayed somewhere close to that job. This now throws all the responsiblilty on Gayle who is trying to work, take care of the kids, the bills and everything else around the house. Bob now feels like he's not the bread winner and he's not taking care of his family like he's supposed to...Gayle is making more money and his ego is bruised at this point. Some time during all of this, he comes in contact with another woman who sympathizes with him, consoles him, says all the things he needs to hear. The affair begins. Now when Bob is home he thinks about the other woman more and more...Gayle is stressed out about handling everything but doesn't want to argue about it, Bob keeps things stirred up and the arguments going because this gives him a reason to go see his new love interest and put the blame on Gayle. In his mind he's blaming her for his failures and for pushing him into the arms of another woman. He and his new lover want to be together. On the weekend Gayle disappears, Bob and his lover had already planned to be together, but Gayle invites her relatives over and messes up Bob's plans. He can't leave home when he and lover had planned so lover calls his house because she can't get him on his cell. He lies to Gayle and her relatives about who was on the phone. Gayle already senses something is going on. After relatives leave, Bob is furious at Gayle for screwing up his plans. The kids go to bed, Bob gets Gayle outside to argue, he chokes her and then puts her in his pickup and takes her away. He is so angry and so focused on getting rid of Gayle that he forgets about his kids being at home alone. He gets rid of Gayle then drives to be with his lover.

 

[Lovejac]

Here's my thoughts on what may have happened...this is just my opinion.

Bob loses his job and takes a construction job 5 hours away, now I'm assuming he stayed somewhere close to that job. This now throws all the responsiblilty on Gayle who is trying to work, take care of the kids, the bills and everything else around the house. Bob now feels like he's not the bread winner and he's not taking care of his family like he's supposed to...Gayle is making more money and his ego is bruised at this point. Some time during all of this, he comes in contact with another woman who sympathizes with him, consoles him, says all the things he needs to hear. The affair begins. Now when Bob is home he thinks about the other woman more and more...Gayle is stressed out about handling everything but doesn't want to argue about it, Bob keeps things stirred up and the arguments going because this gives him a reason to go see his new love interest and put the blame on Gayle. In his mind he's blaming her for his failures and for pushing him into the arms of another woman. He and his new lover want to be together. On the weekend Gayle disappears, Bob and his lover had already planned to be together, but Gayle invites her relatives over and messes up Bob's plans. He can't leave home when he and lover had planned so lover calls his house because she can't get him on his cell. He lies to Gayle and her relatives about who was on the phone. Gayle already senses something is going on. After relatives leave, Bob is furious at Gayle for screwing up his plans. The kids go to bed, Bob gets Gayle outside to argue, he chokes her and then puts her in his pickup and takes her away. He is so angry and so focused on getting rid of Gayle that he forgets about his kids being at home alone. He gets rid of Gayle then drives to be with his lover.

I have thought of this same scenario. Where is she???

 

[beachlvr0810]

I know alot of people I've talked to seem to think he took her to Easley. I might be wrong, but I just don't think he did. I don't know the roads there in SC very well, only the ones we took when we were on vacation there the day she disappeared but I think he would be taking a big chance of being seen with her body if he took her to Easley. If there are back roads there like they are here in VA then you could drive here all might long with 10 bodies in the back of a truck and nobody would ever see you.

A few of the questions I have are these:
What kind of dang neighborhood does he live in if took him from 2:30pm til 7ish to walk it? Somebody had to have seen him if he did take a walk...if they did has anybody come forth and said they saw him?

What did he do for the 11 hours he was home before he called and reported her missing? Clean up the house and set the stage for when the cops showed up?

Where were the kids during those 11 hours? At home with him? Did he coach them in what to say? Did he tell those poor babies that their mama had run off with another man?

Doesn't add up!!!!!! JMO!

 

[truthsleuth]

Here's my thoughts on what may have happened...this is just my opinion.

Bob loses his job and takes a construction job 5 hours away, now I'm assuming he stayed somewhere close to that job. This now throws all the responsibility on Gayle who is trying to work, take care of the kids, the bills and everything else around the house. Bob now feels like he's not the bread winner and he's not taking care of his family like he's supposed to...Gayle is making more money and his ego is bruised at this point. Some time during all of this, he comes in contact with another woman who sympathizes with him, consoles him, says all the things he needs to hear. The affair begins. Now when Bob is home he thinks about the other woman more and more...Gayle is stressed out about handling everything but doesn't want to argue about it, Bob keeps things stirred up and the arguments going because this gives him a reason to go see his new love interest and put the blame on Gayle. In his mind he's blaming her for his failures and for pushing him into the arms of another woman. He and his new lover want to be together. On the weekend Gayle disappears, Bob and his lover had already planned to be together, but Gayle invites her relatives over and messes up Bob's plans. He can't leave home when he and lover had planned so lover calls his house because she can't get him on his cell. He lies to Gayle and her relatives about who was on the phone. Gayle already senses something is going on. After relatives leave, Bob is furious at Gayle for screwing up his plans. The kids go to bed, Bob gets Gayle outside to argue, he chokes her and then puts her in his pickup and takes her away. He is so angry and so focused on getting rid of Gayle that he forgets about his kids being at home alone. He gets rid of Gayle then drives to be with his lover.

I agree with most of your hypothesis, beachlvr0810, but I wonder why Bob's new love hasn't beaten a path to the nearest LE station to offer up Bob.

I would think the news that Bob's wife went missing on the very night he stopped by for a middle-of-the-night hoochie-coochie visit might freak me out and make me wonder if Bob had anything to do with Gayle's disappearance. Gosh, could it be? :waitasec: :banghead:

For justice's sake, I'm hoping the girlfriend can get over her attachment to this possible wife murderer and put Bob where he needs to be: in jail. MOO. JMHO. MHO. And all that.

 

[mamacita]

I agree with most of your hypothesis, beachlvr0810, but I wonder why Bob's new love hasn't beaten a path to the nearest LE station to offer up Bob.

I would think the news that Bob's wife went missing on the very night he stopped by for a middle-of-the-night hoochie-coochie visit might freak me out and make me wonder if Bob had anything to do with Gayle's disappearance. Gosh, could it be? :waitasec: :banghead:

For justice's sake, I'm hoping the girlfriend can get over her attachment to this possible wife murderer and put Bob where he needs to be: in jail. MOO. JMHO. MHO. And all that.

unless the lover wanted him all to herself and her hands are dirty too... MOO

 

[truthsleuth]

unless the lover wanted him all to herself and her hands are dirty too... MOO

I don't know, mamacita. Bob doesn't seem like that much of a catch.
But you may very well be right ...

 

[mamacita]

I don't know, mamacita. Bob doesn't seem like that much of a catch.
But you may very well be right ...

oh trust me, i couldn't agree more completely. LOL

 

[Coldpizza]

http://www.postandcourier.com/article/20120321/PC1602/303219920



I wonder who the phone call was from / what it was about??

Personally I don't wonder whom the phone call was from, but I do wonder what it was about.

 

[noZme]

I feel so badly for her children & family. His route that night made for a vast area to cover, but have there been searches for Ms McCaffrey? Are we waiting for a hiker, logger or hunter to stumble upon remains a year... or ten ... from now?

 

[MissJames]

I feel so badly for her children & family. His route that night made for a vast area to cover, but have there been searches for Ms McCaffrey? Are we waiting for a hiker, logger or hunter to stumble upon remains a year... or ten ... from now?

I know MGM's sister and BIL that have the kids with them. I haven't had contact since this started,but I can tell you ,the sister I know is strong. She's one tough cookie (in a good way) and will not let this fade away.She will not be quiet.
I'm glad she got custody of the kids.She'll do whatever is needed for them.

MGM isn't the only missing wife in the Charleston area ,right now,either. The husband in that case committed suicide as his friends were entering his home and they had also been in NC just prior to her disappearance (Boone).

 

[MissJames]

I'm curious why isn't he supporting his children?

He lost his job before this happened and it was reported that he was working for MGM's aunt ,renovating a vacation home in Brevard,NC around the time of the disappearance.He probably doesn't have any money.
A lot of local people want to help and a fund for the kids was probably a response to offers being made.

That said ,I can tell you,I've done interviews with the local Charleston media,many times ,and they always get, at least part of the interview ,wrong. The Post and Courier has actually put comments in quotes ,as if I said something that I didn't. It opened my eyes to what media will do and I never take anything as fact unless I see someone say it ,themselves.

 

[Coldpizza]

There is a FB group page for Marjorie

It's called "Where is Marjorie Gayle McCaffrey"

MissJames every time I see your posts I say to myself What a beautiful and wonderful dog your son has!!!

He just warms my heart

 

[Money Girl]

Very disappointed in the lack of media coverage of Gayle's disappearance.

 

[beachlvr0810]

Very disappointed in the lack of media coverage of Gayle's disappearance.

Me too, Money Girl.......I check here and on the FB page every day to see if there are any new updates. I don't go a day without thinking about her.

 

[redkatrampant]

http://www.live5news.com/story/17341288/crews-searching-highway-61-area-for-missing-woman


CHARLESTON, SC (WCSC) -

Search crews with the Charleston County Sheriff's Office have resumed searching for missing woman Gayle McCaffrey on Thursday.

A mobile crime scene unit has been set up in the Bi-Lo shopping center on Bees Ferry Road, near Highway 61.


*I have to go by there today. I will see if I can get some pics and info!*

 

[Coldpizza]

Hope this works

3125 State Road S-10-57, Charleston, SC - Google Maps

The building at the top right is the Bi Lo where the command post is

 

[redkatrampant]

I know MGM's sister and BIL that have the kids with them. I haven't had contact since this started,but I can tell you ,the sister I know is strong. She's one tough cookie (in a good way) and will not let this fade away.She will not be quiet.
I'm glad she got custody of the kids.She'll do whatever is needed for them.

MGM isn't the only missing wife in the Charleston area ,right now,either. The husband in that case committed suicide as his friends were entering his home and they had also been in NC just prior to her disappearance (Boone).

Actually they found her.
http://www.live5news.com/story/16966549/police-holding-press-conference-on-mount-pleasant-woman