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Thanks for the post, @cass523.
It's good to see that something good will come out of this tragedy.
What a rotten, cowardly, and sick thing was done to this trusting, young college student. Who of us might have easily done what she did? Many of us were happy to be in college -- to be away from home, on our own (regardless of who was paying tuition, room & board...), new friends, freedom like we never had before, studying was a complication, but hey, we got it done. How many of us would have happily jumped into that car, trusting that the driver was a good honest guy who was just trying to make a little money?
Oh, her poor family.
Just is coming, but she will still be gone...
As stated before, I’m the mom of 5 and wife on an Uber/Lyft driver. This opinion I’m about to give was very unpopular on a friends facebook post and I was called mean, insensitive and a poor excuse for a mother, but here goes. The whole idea that an Uber driver has to say your name is false. Uber discourages it, at least in my area which is Miami/Ft Lauderdale because of fraud. The scam is the driver says, “Are you Carol?” the rider says “yes” gets in. Before the ride is over, the passenger says drop me off here. The driver pulls over because if you don’t..it’s kidnapping..and lets them out. Then the driver ends the ride on the app. The next day, you get a message that the wrong passenger was picked up and you get paid nothing for your time, gas, anything. It’s a free ride to the scammer that gets them close to their destination if they are lucky, the person who ordered the Uber gets a refund because the driver picked up someone who claimed to be them and not the correct person, and the driver is out money. Uber says the passenger should tell the driver what their driver’s name is for verification if you want to ensure you will be paid. So this whole movement that the college announced saying everyone should say, “Hi are you so and so?” will never work in reality. Uber drivers will just start refusing all those passengers. Please don’t forget that Uber drivers have families and bills too. Not to mention that our car has major wear and tear from passengers. Not just mileage and tires, but people will literally wipe dog poop they stepped in all over your carpets. They will take their gum out and stick it on your seats. Now not all passengers are like this, but enough that I can tell you that it’s not a public transport service where a driver can give away free rides all the time! Also, the idea that Uber drivers are all seedy characters that give you the creeps is just plain ignorance. I know many many drivers who are working for families and trust me, it doesn't pay well. I have a very good job that pays most of the bills and my husband makes the same as he did at his regular job but he also works 7 days a week, gets up at 4am and ends every day at 7 pm. That's alot of hours for not alot of money, but he enjoys the freedom of being his own boss and he's happy. There are many honest drivers out there just working for their families. Not everyone is a killer or a rapist. With that said, the best thing that passengers can do at present time is check the license plate, type of car and the driver info. That is what the info is there for. No one should feel uncomfortable or rude doing so. My husband thinks its great in the rare circumstance someone does and is not offended in the least bit. The QR thing I read earlier sounds like an idea that can work, but putting 100% of your safety onto a driver is not only not taking any responsibility for your own safety, it’s just not right to do to a driver. Now, if my opinion sounds like I’m victim blaming that isn’t my intention. I think it is a horrible thing that happened, but it was a preventable tragedy. I know that probably tears her parents up inside but that is the fact. This young girl made a deadly mistake and jumped in a car with a crazed killer. Even typing it makes me cringe. So sad.