Your right there is an unwritten law about talking bad about the dead. But saying he killed a young woman is not talking trash, it's stating a fact. Mary Jo's death was only a "grievious mistake" because Ted was a Kennedy and he was wealthy, for anyone else it would have been a crime. He never served one day in jail, how did he attone for her death? I believe her family would feel differently. I'm not saying he hasn't done good for this Country but I know for a fact that he caused one family immeasurable pain. The fact that it was swept under the rug and he didn't have to face the consequences is probably why some people are so upset. I know he had to live with the fact that he was a coward and I am sure he was ashamed but I can't imagine how her family felt watching him go on as if nothing had happened. I certainly do not believe he deserved to have cancer and I feel terrible for his family. I just don't see him as the saint that some people do.