I was just thinking about this yesterday. How manipulative and arrogant is this? He's a police officer but he has his own wife arrested during what - an argument? I'm convinced he did that not only to terrorize her - prove that he, as part of the blue squad, had the upper hand - and to get it on the record just like he kept those receipts. To me, this is part of that beautiful word PREMEDITATION. There is apparently nothing he has done that has not been premeditated. It's beyond sad that TWO of his wives feared him because of violence and threats, and put that in writing, and told others, almost like they were making Last Will and Testaments. It would be like knowing the mafia had a hit on you being with him.
Thank you, ChickenPants. I could not agree more. As a person who lived in a very violent marriage for almost 8 years, its now going on almost 30 years since I escaped from that marriage with nothing but my children. Thank God I got them, though. The feelings of panic, isolation, and impending dread have never left me, and I have not been around a violent man since the day I left him. (With the exception of my own brother, who was friends w/ my first husband and uses the same intimidation himself, along with confrontation, yelling, and as recently as 6 years ago, physical violence at me. Actual punching) If my current husband of 17 years knew he had punched me (right in my belly- and I have had a liver transplant so that's not the best place to get punched. And he knew it) he would have freaked the you-know-what OUT. So I never told him, therefore I continue to carry the dirty cycle of secrecy
that is domestic violence.
I think that's why I absolutely HATE Drew so much. I see the same in him in so many ways. I recognize the sociopaths when I see them and see how they act. I know how Kathleen and Stacy felt. I know living that kind of life, and it's terrifying.
To put it mildly.
I pray the jury sees through this the way we do. Please God, let them be smart and NOTHING like those Pinella County jurors. I want to see Life or LWOP for him, and I want him to be found guilty of Stacy's disapperance and get another LWOP sentence. If I had the choice of LWOP plus torture, I would want that for him.
Has anyone wondered if perhaps Drew did some form of waterboarding to KS?
The only problem I see with that is how he could have restrained her and waterboarded her at the same time. Plus he would have had to take the wet towel with him along with that bag of clothes belonging to Kathleen. Wonder if any towels belonging to Kathleen are missing? Of course those "investigators" didn't "investigate" anything like that.
Sorry for the :rant:
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