South Hadley,MA Phoebe Prince 15 kills self over bullying

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  • #541
I know that the conversation has moved away from this point, but I've been busy at work and instead have followed the thread via email, and I was just reading now and caught something I wanted to mention.

The "accomplished" tidbit is getting taken out of context. No one wrote "mission accomplished" on the wall of her memorial page (to my knowledge). In googling the suspects, someone came across one of the suspects MySpace pages, and her mood said "accomplished." For those who aren't familiar, MySpace has a drop-down box where you can select from a dozen or so "moods," and accomplished is one of the moods you can select. I saw it myself several days ago before I was so interested in the case, but I can't remember which girl it was and I haven't been able to find it again. So much comes up when you google now.

Just wanted to clarify that point so that we have correct facts. Even news articles are getting it wrong.

True. Mood said accomplished. But word is others things WERE written, as well. Also rumor of some bragging done at the dance, 2 days after Phoebe died, at how police were deceived. We'll also have to wait for confirmation on that.
 
  • #542
Yes, mean things were definitely said on the facebook wall. I almost wish I could have seen them before they were taken down, but I know it would just make me even more angry.
 
  • #543
Must read link...Darby O'Brien and Kevin Cullen are on my hero list, for sure...may God bless them both...

"Darby O'Brien, the local hero who exposed Phoebe Prince bullies"

"In the immediate aftermath of Phoebe Prince's death from bullying little changed at South Hadley High.

Just two days after, the annual cotillion dance went ahead with lavish amounts of money spent on dresses, chauffeur driven cars and expensive gifts for girlfriends.

Some of the bullies who had driven Phoebe to suicide attended the cotillion without any reprimand.

Those same kids who had caused Phoebe's death continued to walk the corridors in the schools and the principal and the school superintendent seemed ready to brush the whole affair under the carpet.

Then Darby O'Brien stepped in
http://www.irishcentral.com/story/n...o-exposed-phoebe-prince-bullies-89897482.html
 
  • #544
Another photo of sweet Phoebe
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  • #545
What a sweet face. Her poor family. Sweet heavens, the heart breaks. :(

Here are the Spoiled Soulless Mean Girls who obviously couldn't stand the competition.
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Clockwise from top left, Sharon Chanon Velazquez, Sean Mulveyhill, Kayla Narey, Ashley Longe and Austin Renaud.
 
  • #546
People Stand For Phoebe! The outrage is justified, imo...
"In the meantime, critics have started calling for resignations.

"This is a tragic incident ... and when bad things happen people will say things like that. I'm not surprised but I take my cues from the school committee and they've given me full support," said Sayer. Principal Smith did not immediately return calls seeking comment.

The attention this has all garnered has prompted calls and -mails to teachers, staff and administrators from across the country.

"[The messages say] why did we allow this to happen, some more derogatory and acoustic than others," says South Hadley Police Chief David LaBrie.
I wonder WHO is on the school committee and what ties THEY have to the bullies and/or school officials...
http://www.wggb.com/Global/story.asp?S=12244071
 
  • #547
Must read link...Darby O'Brien and Kevin Cullen are on my hero list, for sure...may God bless them both...

"Darby O'Brien, the local hero who exposed Phoebe Prince bullies"


http://www.irishcentral.com/story/n...o-exposed-phoebe-prince-bullies-89897482.html

Thank you, Paladine. That really is a great read, and it explains a lot. I've read locals' comments about how this town is a world unto itself, where there is no justice as untouchable families push their weight around to get their way and terrible things are swept under the rug.

Bravo to Darby O'Brien, and to Kevin Cullen and all the other reporters who are exposing them to the light of the real world.
 
  • #548
Thank you, Paladine. That really is a great read, and it explains a lot. I've read locals' comments about how this town is a world unto itself, where there is no justice as untouchable families push their weight around to get their way and terrible things are swept under the rug.

Bravo to Darby O'Brien, and to Kevin Cullen and all the other reporters who are exposing them to the light of the real world.

Yw. I just found this, as well.
"At South Hadley High I realized right away that I was not quite in sync. I have never owned a North Face sweater, a designer purse, and the one time I tried to wear acrylic nails I managed to hurt myself multiple times, so I took them off after about three days. I didn’t know what cotillion was, I got my first pair of Ugg-like boots a month earlier at Old Navy, I have never worn sweatpants to school and, although I have nothing but respect for athletes, my forays into sports have proven about as successful as the acrylic nails were. I had also never before said the Pledge of Allegiance in school, or taken a school bus (I soon learned the important lesson of making sure I got to the bus right after school ended, as on my first day I managed to miss my bus after I got lost trying to make my way to the front door).
It seems to me that SHHS is a place where anyone can thrive with the right amount of self motivation, focus on learning, and ability to overcome scrutiny. For, as students at South Hadley High School, we are lucky enough to not only be gifted with extremely invested and capable teachers, but also rigorous classes and interested and talented peers.
I found this piece disturbing, posted March 1st, 2010, praising the school after a new student commits suicide...at minimum, extremely insensitive...

I'm finding comments on blogs and articles blaming Phoebe's "weakness", as well. It makes me angry beyond belief...and fuels my posting.
http://southhadleystudentpress.com/?p=128
 
  • #549
Yet, it doesn't seem all these kids are from affluent "privileged" families. Narey deceased Father was a plumber. Mulveyhill's home is just an average family home.

Any info on the others.

Maybe their status was from their athletic abilities and the cache it brought to the schools.

Three new posts today for anyone interested...
http://stmarysmead.wordpress.com/
 
  • #550
And check this out. This local newsletter started a new section in March...called "Teen Times". And they focus on the difficulties of a new school, how some are well equipt..and some...well, you know...just not as stable...it is infuriating. It looks like propaganda to me. Trying to brain wash the public into believing any balanced kid could make it...there must have been something wrong with Phoebe! Page 11 of this PDF...
http://www.townreminderonline.com/030510reminder.pdf

ETA: There is also a pic of SHHS library on this link, page 13, taken Feb 27th, 2010. It looks open and airy from this view...thinking of how a teacher could/couldnot have seen Phoebe being bullied in there. I can't seem to copy it, if anyone has better skills, and can, please do...\
 
  • #551
Yw. I just found this, as well.


I found this piece disturbing, posted March 1st, 2010, praising the school after a new student commits suicide...at minimum, extremely insensitive...

I'm finding comments on blogs and articles blaming Phoebe's "weakness", as well. It makes me angry beyond belief...and fuels my posting.
http://southhadleystudentpress.com/?p=128

Paladine, this is where patience needs to be. The writer is a student at SHHS. She is writing from her perspective at this moment. As frustrating as it can be, especially as adults from the outside of it all, some "slack" has to be given. The writer of this piece is not the person to be concerned about. It is those who surround this bright mind....

imvho
 
  • #552
Paladine, this is where patience needs to be. The writer is a student at SHHS. She is writing from her perspective at this moment. As frustrating as it can be, especially as adults from the outside of it all, some "slack" has to be given. The writer of this piece is not the person to be concerned about. It is those who surround this bright mind....

imvho

I've written for my student paper...back in the day. ;) And the stories always had to be approved by faculty. The writer is entitled to her opinion, but I think it was bad timing...or propaganda. I've found no mention of bullying in these stories...only the "adjustment issues"...

David LaBrie, the police chief in South Hadley said: "A teenage girl appears to have taken her own life ... a myriad of issues could have been involved." Gus Sayer, the superintendent for South Hadley High, revealed Phoebe had been having counselling for "adjustment issues" but he said he could not speculate on why she did what she did.
http://www.independent.ie/lifestyle/bullied-to-death-2098808.html
 
  • #553
The picture of the library is indeed quite interesting. Great find...you are doing a superb job!

Phoebe was allegedly surrounded at her seat...angry profanities directed at just her...one child sitting alone...surrounded. How hard could it be for an attentive teacher in that room to pick up on what was happening?
 
  • #554
The Death of Phoebe Price cannot be swept under the rug.

I live in a community where crimes like this are convieniently forgotten about.
The bullying going on in our local private and public schools is ignored by the school administration. My own niece's hair was set on fire by another high school student who thought it was funny. The school banned him from Prom but the kid showed up at Prom anyway. Come to find out this kid was from a wealthy family who monetarily supported the school admins and board. The school let his actions slide and the incident disappeared from school records.
All school age children need a welcoming and safe environment to concentrate on their academic studies. They should never have to be preoccupied with threats, verbal or physical from fellow students and even school employees.
No child or teen should ever be pushed to such extremes such as suicide, drug use, or alcoholism to deal with an intolerable environment in his or her school.
No matter how many laws on Bullying in schools and in public, are passed in states, Unless they are ENFORCED, the laws will be worthless.
Just as you have the Superintendent of Schools of Miss Princes school trying to pass off responsibility of her death to others , the same will happen in all schools where the Crime of Bullying is committed.
We live in a sad world when we can't protect our children from Bullys.
 
  • #555
I've written for my student paper...back in the day. ;) And the stories always had to be approved by faculty. The writer is entitled to her opinion, but I think it was bad timing...or propaganda. I've found no mention of bullying in these stories...only the "adjustment issues"...


http://www.independent.ie/lifestyle/bullied-to-death-2098808.html

Dear, dear, Lady... You have placed so much of yourself into this and I cannot begin to find the words of appreciation for what you do! :blowkiss: You actually proved a point that I didn't share. It has to be approved and at this moment, the writer wrote from her perspective and whomever approved it saw/read as a plus for fellow students, et al. Does the timing suck? Yes. But, look at the damage control that is being done here. Know what I mean? There is a rationalization for ignoring the bullying here. Frankly, I believe it will not work, but they will continue to try.
 
  • #556
The picture of the library is indeed quite interesting. Great find...you are doing a superb job!

Phoebe was allegedly surrounded at her seat...angry profanities directed at just her...one child sitting alone...surrounded. How hard could it be for an attentive teacher in that room to pick up on what was happening?

It was ignored. Period.
 
  • #557
Dear, dear, Lady... You have placed so much of yourself into this and I cannot begin to find the words of appreciation for what you do! :blowkiss: You actually proved a point that I didn't share. It has to be approved and at this moment, the writer wrote from her perspective and whomever approved it saw/read as a plus for fellow students, et al. Does the timing suck? Yes. But, look at the damage control that is being done here. Know what I mean? There is a rationalization for ignoring the bullying here. Frankly, I believe it will not work, but they will continue to try.

aww...you are kind, my friend. :blowkiss: That's my point. Why the focus in papers, including the student paper, on adjustment issues? Why no stories on bullying? The newletters focus was all on kids moving to new schools. As if THAT was the problem. That's my beef. :)

'It's sick' he told Cullen in terms of the cover up that was underway saying the local media was far too deferential to the school authorities.

Cullen,now a columnist at the globe began investigating and his subsequent stories about the bullies and the failure of school authorities to act blew the case wide open
http://www.irishcentral.com/story/n...o-exposed-phoebe-prince-bullies-89897482.html

respectfully bolded by me...
 
  • #558
Did I mention I'm in love with Kevin Cullen? ;)
 
  • #559
The picture of the library is indeed quite interesting. Great find...you are doing a superb job!

Phoebe was allegedly surrounded at her seat...angry profanities directed at just her...one child sitting alone...surrounded. How hard could it be for an attentive teacher in that room to pick up on what was happening?

I think the adult saw it. I've read reports, unconfirmed, they blocked the door, so she couldn't leave...I can't wait to learn more about that.
 
  • #560
aww...you are kind, my friend. :blowkiss: That's my point. Why the focus in papers, including the student paper, on adjustment issues? Why no stories on bullying? The newletters focus was all on kids moving to new schools. As if THAT was the problem. That's my beef. :)


http://www.irishcentral.com/story/n...o-exposed-phoebe-prince-bullies-89897482.html

respectfully bolded by me...

You are thinking rationally. Think "damage control". Remove the emotion and think "business". That is what's going on here. That is the reason people, like ourselves, will continue to voice and make noise. It is not "sunshine and sweet lollipops" here. This is reality and the ignorance *must* end. Many have shared having money, status, or being in a clique is the reason. It's not. It's about having power over another for personal satisfaction. We keep making the noise and remember it's not just about Phoebe, it's about all these innocents who suffer they way she did. We are the voices of the abused lost. No one has the right to destroy and these young people must know we will not allow it to happen at the life expense.

I think I had a little vent there, eh? :)
 
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