gracielee
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Thanks for this insight. I think it's interesting that you mentioned their use of "we" in discussions because some on here get very offended when BC uses "we" in the same fashion when he speaks. It seems to be a colloquialism or something. Like the southern y'all.
The difference is, Garry & Donna are both ALIVE. The phone conversations could very well have been on speakerphone or together at HH. When Brad uses *we*, Nancy is already dead. There is no 'we', and there hadn't been a WE for quite some time. I no more believe 'we went to fix baby a bottle' then I believe there is a man in the moon. Nor do I believe 'we' were doing the laundry on Saturday morning and 'we' noticed 'we' needed more detergent. When Garry or Donna used 'we', I anyway, definitely felt it had to do with situations 'they' had discussed together, contemplated *together*. When Brad used it to reference he & nancy, after she was dead, it felt more like he was lugging along a dead, conjoined twin with him. There hadn't been a WE in the cooper marriage in a long, LONG time. MOO