To Cindy,
Advice is cheap, and I'm sure you've have enough to choke on. My only advice would be stop talking to, reading, or even watching the media coverage. You and you only know what is in your heart, and the media is never going to get it right. Listening to all the noise-makers is just going to make you angry and want to respond, when really most of it doesn't deserve your response. Turn off the TV, cancel the paper, and (after you read this!) turn off the computers! We have nothing to say that is going to fix this for you!
You should listen to LE. You should not depend solely on your defense attorney, because he is going to tell you what you want to hear. You need to listen to LE and understand everything they have. Don't look and listen with your grandmother eyes and ears, but try to learn the facts.
I strongly advise that you talk to your attorney and have HIM set up a polygraph for you and your husband and son. Once all three of you pass it, then let your attorney put those results out and it should quieten down most of the detractors.
About your daughter, you cannot change anything that has happened. She needs to know you love her and you can, in fact, forgive her for whatever she's put you through. She clearly did not feel that way to start with. I gather there has been some problems for a long time. So what? Everyone has problems, and it really isn't anyone's business. Your's have come out for the world to see, but the reality is that most of the issues your family has faced, someone right down the street has probably faced, too. As Solomon said, There is nothing new under the sun! Nothing that you face is uniquely yours.
Having said that, your daughter has clearly made some mistakes. You are not doing her any favor by ignoring that fact. She lied to police in the single most important event in your lives. She steals from her friends and family. She must be made to stand up and take the consequences. Once she does that, it will be much easier for her to face the rest of her life. She is going to have to be completely truthful with you and your family at some point and it will be easier if she knows you have already forgiven her.
As to Caylee, you are 100% correct that it is not wrong to have hope. We all join you in constant hope and prayer that she will be returned unharmed. Until we have definitive proof otherwise, we must assume she is OK. To believe otherwise would be a great injustice to her. However, you should also be receptive to facts that the evidence has shown. Something very dark happened around Caylee; human decomposition in a car trunk is not natural. As a nurse, you know that.
You should also know as a grandmother that you love Caylee with every beat of your heart and you have always done everything possible for her. Her happiness and joy is evident in all the pictures we've seen. As a bystander, I thank you for allowing us to share the beauty of the child with you. She is a precious little girl.
Finally, God and God alone is the giver and taker of life. Wherever Caylee is, she is SAFE in the arms of God.
Stop talking to the media and the protesters.,
Get out of your house and LOOK for Caylee
Stop critisizing other people who ARE looking for Caylee.
Stop changing your stories.
i feel the same way ..i just hope this ends for you guys soon and caylee is returned . and cindy i know your afraid for your daughter .as a mom i would be too ..but if caylee is truely gone she has a right to rely on your love for her your memories of her . you loved her sooo much i know you did . i saw it in your pictures with her.. please dont let her down . i know casey is your baby too.and i know this is terribly horrid for you to go through . if it was an accident casey wont get the dp for it she wont get life for it .. everything you guys and casey are doing makes casey look more guilty and i know its not meant that way .. please dont give the protesters the satisfaction to give you a hard time dont talk to the press dont argue with them that is what they want .. if you ever do find out what happened and you do go to the police .. you gotta keep in mind your not doing it because your giving in to peoples demands! your doing it for that precious grand daughter.. that you used to take out and cuddle with and give kisses and play in the sandbox ,the one that used to play dress up with you the one you bought all those beautiful toys and clothes for . the one that would look up at you with ssoooo much love in her beautiful brown eyes that you could feel her love to you with every ounce of your souls .. who would open her arms wide and hug you her warm little baby body on your lap her little baby cheeks brushing against your face .her little hands playing patty cake with you .. dont let her down .people want to help you cindy they really do . all you have to do is ask .. give out details on the tips .. say your sorry for calling the public parasites .. although i dont feel you meant them . i feel you meant the cameras at your house bringing all the attention .. am i right ? help the people to help you . people dont know caylee but they love her .. and i know you feel they may hate casey but . alot of it is because casey has lied so much ..cindy you have to be caylees voice . your the adult . no one NO one can love caylee like you do . please dont let her down .casey i dont know you dont know if your gonna read here but please help your family . i know you want to be free but unless your truthful it wont be forever anyway what do you have to lose ? you will never know life as you once knew it unless you tell the truth .. the law is smarter then you think .. please be a voice for your daughterI just want Cindy to know that there are SO VERY MANY people out here that ache for what her and George are going through.
Our hearts are with you. I hope that that brings you even the smallest degree of comfort.
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