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The Ford-Kavanaugh Hearings and 3 Inextricable Links Between Sexual Assaults, Narcissism and the “Cult of Masculinity”
In so doing we watched men, and their accomplices, work together in a predictable to enforce strict adherence — of the dupers and duped alike — to “the cult of masculinity” and its coveted “code of silence.”
Women and girls however are not the only victims of sexual assault by men. Boys and men are assaulted, perhaps in far greater number than they are free to admit.
Once a member of the “Cult of Masculinity”, for example, Terry Crews regularly speaks out after he experienced the cult’s reaction to his breaking the “code of silence” when he revealed he was sexually assaulted by his agent in the film industry. In his words:
“Growing up…asking friends how to talk to a girl … I was told to lie to her, to keep her off-balance. Having “game” was all about manipulating girls, getting them to give you sex, then tossing them aside. As a man, you’re also taught to keep your girl in check, to maintain control. But you cannot control someone and love them at the same time. You only control things that are beneath you.”
“I was a card-carrying member of the cult of masculinity. I and other young men in my community watched our mothers and sisters be abused, which taught us that we were worth more than the women in our lives.”
In lay terms, this predictable pattern is known as gaslighting. In research, psychologist Dr. Jennifer Freyd identified and labeled the pattern D.A.R.V.O.: “Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender.” in her studies of male sexual assault of women.
Women and girls however are not the only victims of sexual assault by men. Boys and men are assaulted, perhaps in far greater number than they are free to admit.
Once a member of the “Cult of Masculinity”, for example, Terry Crews regularly speaks out after he experienced the cult’s reaction to his breaking the “code of silence” when he revealed he was sexually assaulted by his agent in the film industry. In his words:
“Growing up…asking friends how to talk to a girl … I was told to lie to her, to keep her off-balance. Having “game” was all about manipulating girls, getting them to give you sex, then tossing them aside. As a man, you’re also taught to keep your girl in check, to maintain control. But you cannot control someone and love them at the same time. You only control things that are beneath you.”
“I was a card-carrying member of the cult of masculinity. I and other young men in my community watched our mothers and sisters be abused, which taught us that we were worth more than the women in our lives.”
In lay terms, this predictable pattern is known as gaslighting. In research, psychologist Dr. Jennifer Freyd identified and labeled the pattern D.A.R.V.O.: “Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender.” in her studies of male sexual assault of women.