Teresa N., Haleigh's paternal grandmother

[debs]

ITA It breaks my heart when I remember the sadness on her face and the tears of pure anguish streaming down her face. It was in such sharp contrast to what we had seen on a previous case from the grandmother. Teresa was genuinely in horrific pain and it was written all over her, imo. I honestly didn't see it from the maternal side here either which did cause me great concern.

For what it's worth, people were discussing it as a THEORY, one of many and by no means a . But hey. Let's make sure to not leave off that daily potshot at Crystal and her family's grief. Your statement here proves it is no less shameful to suggest that TN had something to do with HaLeigh's disappearance.

Whatever happened to HaLeigh, I believe the grief of every person who loved her is real, is emotional, and it is unfair to slap Crystal every time someone discusses a THEORY about what could have happened to her. It is in the discussion that the elimination process happens, not just because YOU state there is no way. What's that favorite phrase? Oh yes. GMAB.

 

[lonetraveler]

Websleuth: a web site where posters can act as a detective and investigate a crime. Sleuth: investigate. You do not pick and choose what to investigate but investigate every avenue. You do not hesitate to investigate because someone doesn't like the subject you are investigating. Every single avenue needs to be investigated. Every theory needs to be gutted and taken apart until it has been eliminated. So far, I don't think any family member or acquaintances have been eliminated from this case. This past year should prove that sometimes even the least likely suspects can sometimes be the key to solving a kidnapping/murder case.

 

[elle1919]

For what it's worth, people were discussing it as a THEORY, one of many and by no means a . But hey. Let's make sure to not leave off that daily potshot at Crystal and her family's grief. Your statement here proves it is no less shameful to suggest that TN had something to do with HaLeigh's disappearance.

Whatever happened to HaLeigh, I believe the grief of every person who loved her is real, is emotional, and it is unfair to slap Crystal every time someone discusses a THEORY about what could have happened to her. It is in the discussion that the elimination process happens, not just because YOU state there is no way. What's that favorite phrase? Oh yes. GMAB.

For what it's worth, I saw genuine grief from Crystal, I still see genuine grief from Crystal, however, I can not say that I saw genuine grief from Marie, she wasn't as much of a presence in the beginning as TN was. I don't take the fact that we didn't see Marie crying in public as much to mean she didn't care, she just seemed like a different kind of woman.

 

[stilettos]

Here is another one which to me is insinuating Teresa may have been involved in Haleigh's disappearance.

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Just to make it clear....I am one who has found TN's quick appearance at the crime scene interesting. I find it's those interesting tidbits that I like to run down to rule in or rule out someone in the crime. Her residence info is interesting because of the different addresses listed on her professional licenses. I think that all of the family should, could and will be looked into. Is there a rule about not looking into certain family memebers here?

 

[SeriouslySearching]

For what it's worth, people were discussing it as a THEORY, one of many and by no means a . But hey. Let's make sure to not leave off that daily potshot at Crystal and her family's grief. Your statement here proves it is no less shameful to suggest that TN had something to do with HaLeigh's disappearance.

Whatever happened to HaLeigh, I believe the grief of every person who loved her is real, is emotional, and it is unfair to slap Crystal every time someone discusses a THEORY about what could have happened to her. It is in the discussion that the elimination process happens, not just because YOU state there is no way. What's that favorite phrase? Oh yes. GMAB.

I wasn't talking about Crystal as I was discussing the grandmothers in that particular post. I did not say one word about Crystal.

From the initial interview with the maternal grandmother, there was not a sense of grief as much as there was of pure venom towards Ronald. It is my perception anyway. I didn't see tears and anguish, but sour grapes from her. It could be "her way", I suppose. However, it didn't cause me to feel very compassionate whereas when I saw Teresa...it struck a serious chord with me and I felt so sorry for her.

I believe if Teresa is being discussed as a "theory"...this fact should be mentioned. It is part of the initial reaction from her and is important, imo.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Just to make it clear....I am one who has found TN's quick appearance at the crime scene interesting. I find it's those interesting tidbits that I like to run down to rule in or rule out someone in the crime. Her residence info is interesting because of the different addresses listed on her professional licenses. I think that all of the family should, could and will be looked into. Is there a rule about not looking into certain family memebers here?

I find it interesting, too. Teresa immediately rushing to the scene where her granddaughter was last seen is of great interest.

To me, it is a positive reaction on her part. It tells me that she was going to be there to look for Haleigh no matter the distance or the time of night. It was no joke for her to hear that Haleigh was missing.

 

[lonetraveler]

I have been watching TN on any tv interview or news item since day one. She appeared to me to be acting as you would expect except when it came to Misty. Her words praising Misty seemed a bit strange to me. What really affected me in regards to TN was when the newly weds, Ron and Misty appeared in New York on an interview and Teresa was there. She appeared to be in hard, soul wrenching grief, as if she had just learned a very horrible truth about her little granddaughter just prior to the interview. Her grief was uncontrollable. IMO, TN learned a new bit of evidence on that trip with Ron and Misty and I believe at that moment she realized that Haleigh was gone forever and she would never see her again. Her appearance changed from worried sick about finding her granddaughter to a look of total shock and grief. She could not stop crying. Her look was of shock. I will always believe that on this trip to NY she found out the truth about Haleigh's disappearance.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I have been watching TN on any tv interview or news item since day one. She appeared to me to be acting as you would expect except when it came to Misty. Her words praising Misty seemed a bit strange to me. What really affected me in regards to TN was when the newly weds, Ron and Misty appeared in New York on an interview and Teresa was there. She appeared to be in hard, soul wrenching grief, as if she had just learned a very horrible truth about her little granddaughter just prior to the interview. Her grief was uncontrollable. IMO, TN learned a new bit of evidence on that trip with Ron and Misty and I believe at that moment she realized that Haleigh was gone forever and she would never see her again. Her appearance changed from worried sick about finding her granddaughter to a look of total shock and grief. She could not stop crying. Her look was of shock. I will always believe that on this trip to NY she found out the truth about Haleigh's disappearance.

People grieving go through different emotions at different times. A small thing can set them off to a session of sobbing uncontrollably.

ETA: I took away Teresa's Oscar.

 

[cajun]

Thank you, saw that. But the Petit address you cited is farther down that street.

Actually it's not. It's with the same group of mobile homes.

http://gis.putnam-fl.com/website/pc...CELID='03-12-27-0000-0050-0150'&QueryZoom=Yes

 

[cajun]

I have been watching TN on any tv interview or news item since day one. She appeared to me to be acting as you would expect except when it came to Misty. Her words praising Misty seemed a bit strange to me. What really affected me in regards to TN was when the newly weds, Ron and Misty appeared in New York on an interview and Teresa was there. She appeared to be in hard, soul wrenching grief, as if she had just learned a very horrible truth about her little granddaughter just prior to the interview. Her grief was uncontrollable. IMO, TN learned a new bit of evidence on that trip with Ron and Misty and I believe at that moment she realized that Haleigh was gone forever and she would never see her again. Her appearance changed from worried sick about finding her granddaughter to a look of total shock and grief. She could not stop crying. Her look was of shock. I will always believe that on this trip to NY she found out the truth about Haleigh's disappearance.

well yea, she is in grief. Her grandbaby is missing and as for the rest of what you wrote....well, I'm speechless.

 

[Skully]

If she was "acting" she deserves an Oscar! She is certainly in the wrong business and should immediately go to the "big screen".

People grieving go through different emotions at different times. A small thing can set them off to a session of sobbing uncontrollably.

I think you did what I did reading your post. I think he meant she was acting as you would expect a person to act, except not with Misty. I don't think he meant she was "acting".....

 

[Skully]

I have been watching TN on any tv interview or news item since day one. She appeared to me to be acting as you would expect except when it came to Misty. Her words praising Misty seemed a bit strange to me. What really affected me in regards to TN was when the newly weds, Ron and Misty appeared in New York on an interview and Teresa was there. She appeared to be in hard, soul wrenching grief, as if she had just learned a very horrible truth about her little granddaughter just prior to the interview. Her grief was uncontrollable. IMO, TN learned a new bit of evidence on that trip with Ron and Misty and I believe at that moment she realized that Haleigh was gone forever and she would never see her again. Her appearance changed from worried sick about finding her granddaughter to a look of total shock and grief. She could not stop crying. Her look was of shock. I will always believe that on this trip to NY she found out the truth about Haleigh's disappearance.

Wow, I missed that part of the show, I only saw the interview with the newly weds.

 

[debs]

I wasn't talking about Crystal as I was discussing the grandmothers in that particular post. I did not say one word about Crystal.

From the initial interview with the maternal grandmother, there was not a sense of grief as much as there was of pure venom towards Ronald. It is my perception anyway. I didn't see tears and anguish, but sour grapes from her. It could be "her way", I suppose. However, it didn't cause me to feel very compassionate whereas when I saw Teresa...it struck a serious chord with me and I felt so sorry for her.

I believe if Teresa is being discussed as a "theory"...this fact should be mentioned. It is part of the initial reaction from her and is important, imo.

"The daily potshot at Crystal and her family's grief." is what I posted. Marie is included in her family and the content of your post about someone questioning TN's grief while at the same time knocking Marie's is amazing.

In fact, since this is a thread about Teresa Neves, a discussion of Marie is out of place.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I think you did what I did reading your post. I think he meant she was acting as you would expect a person to act, except not with Misty. I don't think he meant she was "acting".....

LOL You are right! I did! Oops!! Thanks for pointing that out to me. I just couldn't imagine how she could have been "acting" so griefstricken and have been so convincing.

I will go back and change my post. Sorry.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

"The daily potshot at Crystal and her family's grief." is what I posted. Marie is included in her family and the content of your post about someone questioning TN's grief while at the same time knocking Marie's is amazing. quote]

It is the truth tho. Can you show me early interviews of Marie showing signs of grief instead of rage and anger? If so, I have definitely missed them.

 

[Shaymus at The Rock]

Actually it's not. It's with the same group of mobile homes.

http://gis.putnam-fl.com/website/pc...CELID='03-12-27-0000-0050-0150'&QueryZoom=Yes

Interesting. Go to Google Maps. It shows the Petitt Road address south of Leslie Loop.

ETA: MapQuest also shows the Petitt Road address south of Leslie Loop.

 

[Tom'sGirl]

Don't foreget there's the "IGNORE" feature available, I suggest some use it!

 

[YellowSubmarine]

I think the reason TN is being looked into is because, as LE has stated, NO ONE has been ruled out. She's probably the last person on my list of POI's, but she's there. She should be checked out. With her LE background, she may have had advice on how to cover something up. I honestly don't think she was involved, but we know it's possible. I guess the one thing that pokes at me in regards to TN is how RC always got off easy when he was caught by police. I'm not sure where the link to his record is, but he had a pretty lengthy one and everything was either dropped or he was just slapped on the hand. I would think TN had something to do with that. Makes you wonder what else she would protect RC from . . . .

 

[lonetraveler]

People grieving go through different emotions at different times. A small thing can set them off to a session of sobbing uncontrollably.

ETA: I took away Teresa's Oscar.

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I'm too familiar with the grieving process. I have lost two grandchildren. I'm saying that her shock and grief were different that day, almost as if she had just learned of Haleigh's fate. I got goosebumps when I watched her. She was literally torn apart. I don't know why you made a statement about taking away Teresa's Oscar, totally uncalled for. I'm making a statement about her grief. At no time have I ever made a comment that she was not grieving for Haleigh.

I do feel that she knows things about Ron that are not good and she is his mother. That in no way takes away from her love for Haleigh and I don't appreciate your comment but you are free to say what you feel.

 

[DotsEyes]

Marie started off angry and accusatory and I distrusted her initial reaction. However, 2 days later, she was stooped over from grief, worry and too exhausted for pointless anger or accusations. I can't judge her now on her first interviews especially after learning the history of her reasonable and ongoing dislike of RC. These 2 grandmothers are heartbroken and neither had a thing to do with Haleigh's disappearance.