Meghan is in the public eye, a celebrity. She is not a regular, unknown wife and mother, that is the difference.
It's not gossip, she dresses in clothing that does not flatter her and is not right for her body type.
Could you imagine if QE2, Prince Charles, or William and Kate decided to "groom themselves as they wish"? It would not be good. There are royals in Europe who also dress to a certain standard because they represent not only themselves but a culture and an entire nation. They also know that there are protocols for what to wear, just like regular people have dress codes that they have to wear at work in the office.
How would people feel if their lawyer showed up to court wearing jogging pants and a ripped, stained t-shirt and uncombed hair? People wouldn't be telling him to groom as he pleases. Maybe not a lawyer, but how about your accountant or your real estate agent during a viewing of your place. Most of us would be upset. Presentation matters.
Royal Fashion Police, Websleuth version.
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