The Crown v Gerard Baden-Clay, 30th June - Trial Day 12, Week 3

[PrimeSuspect]

Gered, your story is so full of holes and we haven't got to April, 2012 yet. smh, jmho

 

[Anonthemouse]

David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 1m
Allison didn't find the initial counselling constructive, thought the counsellor was taking his side - Gerard #badenclay


David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 55s
Allison had an affirmation, 'I am not depressed' - Gerard #badenclay

There's that great quote on pinterest - before diagnosing depression first check that you are not surrounded by a*%holes....
Hmmm

 

[drsleuth]

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 30s

Gerard says as the business continued to grow, he had more of an expectation that she would be able to do more. #badenclay

Gerard says as it was, they were almost living separate lives. #badenclay

Gerard: I wanted us to be together as a family forever. #badenclay

 

[Trooper]

he had been gaslighting her for years.. .. deliberately, calculatingly and relentlessly..

 

[Zorro]

This poor man, groomed for sex in his workplace. Unable to speak out. Held submissive under financial threat. Unable to tell his marriage guidance counsellor or his wife of his living hell. A little bit of vomit crept up my throat.

 

[PrimeSuspect]

David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 1m
Gerard says he didn't mind in the early years, but started to expect her to do more #badenclay






BUT he said earlier Allison was doing so much more for the girls. Taking them to ballet. She must have been feeding and clothing them??!!

He thinks we're a bunch of fools. jmo

 

[they'll get you]

And yet in her diary she writes of craving a hug...

And got laughed at afterwards.
Allison is not there to defend herself.
Oh this is terrible.

 

[drsleuth]

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 5s

Gerard says Allison kept telling herself she wasn't depressed, but she did know the triggers for her depression. #badenclay

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 8s

Gerard says Allison had a psychology degree. But says she didn't want to reveal a weakness when she wasn't feeling the best. #badenclay

 

[Kimster]

Okay, I am ready for a bucket now.

 

[Trooper]

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 30s

Gerard says as the business continued to grow, he had more of an expectation that she would be able to do more. #badenclay

Gerard says as it was, they were almost living separate lives. #badenclay

Gerard: I wanted us to be together as a family forever. #badenclay

well. he could have taken Alison with him when he had his sessions in the Prado with Toni.. that's togetherness...... cheap, too.

 

[Snails]

David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 26s
Allison would rely on me to do everything - Gerard #badenclay

Except breastfeed :banghead:

 

[PrimeSuspect]

David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 49s
She wouldn't take her Zoloft anymore, it became awkward, she didn't communicate with me - Gerard #badenclay

 

[they'll get you]

David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 1m
It started one night in the office when they were working back - Gerard #badenclay


David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 46s
They had trysts in his Prado #badenclay

Hang in there Mr & Mrs Dickie. I'm so sorry.

 

[drsleuth]

Marly , thank you for adding Allison's voice to this thread with her written words ( much better than the crap I am posting!!! )

 

[marlywings]

Okay, I am ready for a bucket now.

 

[Trooper]

Gerard is a very very dangerous man...

 

[drsleuth]

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 28s

Gerard says he would program routes for Allison on the car GPS if she was going somewhere new. #badenclay

BUT SHE DIDN"T DRIVE :banghead::banghead:

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 49s

Gerard says triggers might be "something somebody said", flashbacks to certain situations. #badenclay

 

[Amee]

11:00am: Mr Baden-Clay said his wife often wrote affirmations in her journal.

"She would often write 'I'm not depressed, I'm not depressed'," Mr Baden-Clay said.

"But as the pressures, if you like, of family life, growing a business and raising three children, I felt that if she kept telling herself that she wasn't depressed ... then I had more of an expectation that she was able to do more when I wasn't around and we could have more of a relationship.

"Because as it was we were almost living separate lives. When we were together she would go to bed ... and when we were apart she would look after the children and do everything else."

Read more: http://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/que...y-12-week-4-20140630-3b2vi.html#ixzz3651ThhlQ

 

[PrimeSuspect]

David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 47s
Gerard says anything could be a trigger for Allison's depression, she would have flashbacks #badenclay

 

[drsleuth]

Kate Kyriacou @KateKyriacou · 24s

Gerard says she would take 100mg Zoloft tablet if she felt she was coming up to another trigger. #badenclay

Gerard says in August 2008, he, Phil and Jocelyn started the partnership together. #badenclay