The Murder of Janet Abaroa #2

[golfmom]

I'm not sure what this phot has to do with anything but I can tell you that that was how she looked. No retouching required.

I'm not sure what the photo has to do with anything either, but clearly it was retouched! She has no nose!

 

[MissYouJanet]

We've heard numerous times that Raven was cheating on Janet with multiple partners. Is that possible knowing Raven? Was it in his character to cheat on his wife?

I really don't think he did. It doesn't seem like him.

 

[ewwwinteresting]

Does anybody know why Janet was fired from her job? Or did she quit?

 

[MissYouJanet]

she quit

 

[ewwwinteresting]

I really don't think he did. It doesn't seem like him.

Did Janet confide in you as a friend about her relationship with Raven? Was Janet the type of person to confide in her friends?

 

[MissYouJanet]

Did Janet confide in you as a friend about her relationship with Raven? Was Janet the type of person to confide in her friends?

She confided in her family more than her friends

 

[ewwwinteresting]

She confided in her family more than her friends

So, her friends wouldn't really know about the purported affairs or separation?...but her family most likely would?

 

[golfmom]

She confided in her family more than her friends

MissYouJanet, could you tell us a little bit about Raven, I'd like to be able to get a better sense of who he is.

 

[lauriej]

I appreciate that because I also have a ton of questions. I agree with your statements #2 through #4 above but I'm not sure about #1. In order for your sign to show, you either have to select IT or your birthdate. That would require going into the create profile area. Yes, single is the default setting but even if he somehow missed that part of the profile selection, he would have seen it listed as single on his page after he clicked submit (or whatever the button might happen to say) to enter his birthdate.

..........this is the initial sign-up page at myspace..

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=join

...later, to edit profile, there are 4 PAGES to fill out , whch will then give you the 'longer' profile...( such as his sisters..) with everything from why you're there...who you 'd like to meet...religion...sexual orientation..interests...fav. quotes...etc etc..
...it appears raven has never accessed the edit feature..

...he is logged on there today 26/05 as is his brother....there is an instant message feature......pehaps he logs on to chat...

 

[OriginalJerseyGirl]

..........this is the initial sign-up page at myspace..

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=join

Does it require your birthdate to sign up?

 

[ewwwinteresting]

She confided in her family more than her friends

When is the last time you saw Janet? Was she close to any friends in North Carolina? It seems that all we here from are ones that knew her from the past....

 

[MissYouJanet]

So, her friends wouldn't really know about the purported affairs or separation?...but her family most likely would?

If they were going through the separation process or if she knew about any affairs, she would have told her familiy before anyone else.

 

[PrayersForMaura]

he has a classmates bio from march and on that he listed married.
by the way, it costs money to sign up for classmates, so if he didn't have money for rent, how did he have money for classmates.com?

I am sorry... I do not know Raven, but to embezzle funds, that rquires either a selfish or desperate person and if someone was desperate and wanted to provide for his family, he would sell all the major, unneeded materialistic things.
His selfishness makes me question his character, his integrity and his religious beliefs. Someone who lies and cheats can be a killer.... he's not been ruled out a suspect yet.

 

[PrayersForMaura]

..........this is the initial sign-up page at myspace..

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=join

...later, to edit profile, there are 4 PAGES to fill out , whch will then give you the 'longer' profile...( such as his sisters..) with everything from why you're there...who you 'd like to meet...religion...sexual orientation..interests...fav. quotes...etc etc..
...it appears raven has never accessed the edit feature..

...he is logged on there today 26/05 as is his brother....there is an instant message feature......pehaps he logs on to chat...

ok, i am going to sign up for an account and see what happens.

 

[MissYouJanet]

When is the last time you saw Janet? Was she close to any friends in North Carolina? It seems that all we here from are ones that knew her from the past....

I saw Janet 4 months ago when she came here to visit. I know she had some good friends at church and knew some people at work.

 

[ewwwinteresting]

I saw Janet 4 months ago when she came here to visit. I know she had some good friends at church and knew some people at work.

Was Janet sad to have to quit her job?
Sorry for all the questions..and thank you for your answers.

 

[NCBanker]

A couple of things...

I've heard from one of Raven and Janet's coworkers who says he knows with assurety of at least 2 separate incidents in which Raven was unfaithful. This person has pm'd others on this board as well, so some of you may have received that information as well.

Someone mentioned a page back that they were peeved that Raven had taken money from the Church when he had all those toys. I can assure you that the Church sat down with him and went over his finances with him in order to determine what needed to be cancelled to save money, i.e. cable, satellite, club memberships, etc. They would also look at things he could liquidate (nonessential items, i.e. additional cars, motorcycles, etc.). Being that the Church only paid one month of rent for them may indicate that Raven was unwilling to conform to his leader's counsel on the budget, hence, the landlord giving them a few months of rent-free living. No one takes advantage of the Church.

 

[MissYouJanet]

he has a classmates bio from march and on that he listed married.
by the way, it costs money to sign up for classmates, so if he didn't have money for rent, how did he have money for classmates.com?

I am sorry... I do not know Raven, but to embezzle funds, that rquires either a selfish or desperate person and if someone was desperate and wanted to provide for his family, he would sell all the major, unneeded materialistic things.
His selfishness makes me question his character, his integrity and his religious beliefs. Someone who lies and cheats can be a killer.... he's not been ruled out a suspect yet.

It only costs on classmates if you want to upgrade your membership. I wouldn't have signed up if it cost anything.

I don't know why he embezzled funds all I can think of is that he didn't want people to think he was in financial trouble(selling cars, etc).

 

[ewwwinteresting]

I really don't think he did. It doesn't seem like him.

Raven added Rate Me (Am I hot or not) button to his website (supposedly during their separation). I'm thinking it does sound like him. It seems there have been several reports from others (co-workers)?? that said he was not only unfaithful once, but multiple times. Maybe they know more because they were working with Janet everyday??

 

[PrayersForMaura]

he had to have chosen single and he had to have chosen to upload his photo... you aren't required to list anything or post photos.
He knew what he was doing.

Also, this may be old news... did you see this other photo he has posted?
Shiloh asked him who the guy in the photo with raven is...
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=13790144&imageID=95331526&Mytoken=20050526115057