BTW, this may be an unpopular thought, but I'll say it anyway.
First let me say that this does NOT excuse TA's murder.
At the risk of sounding prejudiced, I think TA was a lot like Gus. People involved at the very top of pyramid schemes make me ill. I'd wager 99.9% of them know that the people at the bottom are getting :censored: I'd also be willing to wager that TA wouldn't have referred to it as a pyramid scheme, like Gus he'd probably call it a circle.
To give an example; Years ago in Rochester some Kodak workers started a classic pyramid scheme called the "Airplane" game. I'll let Wiki explain it;
Pyramid scheme - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
The "Eight-Ball" model
Many pyramids are more sophisticated than the simple model. These recognize that recruiting a large number of others into a scheme can be difficult so a seemingly simpler model is used. In this model each person must recruit two others, but the ease of achieving this is offset because the depth required to recoup any money also increases. The scheme requires a person to recruit two others, who must each recruit two others, who must each recruit two others.
The "eight-ball" model contains a total of fifteen members. Note that unlike in the picture, the triangular setup in the cue game of eight-ball corresponds to an arithmetic progression 1 + 2 + 3 + 4 + 5 = 15. The pyramid scheme in the picture in contrast is a geometric progression 1 + 2 + 4 + 8 = 15.
Prior instances of this scheme have been called the "Airplane Game" and the four tiers labelled as "captain," "co-pilot," "crew," and "passenger" to denote a person's level. Another instance was called the "Original Dinner Party" which labeled the tiers as "dessert," "main course," "side salad," and "appetizer." A person on the "dessert" course is the one at the top of the tree. Another variant, "Treasure Traders," variously used gemology terms such as "polishers," "stone cutters," etc. or gems like "rubies," "sapphires," "diamonds," etc.
When people got tired of the game, those who hadn't attained Captain or Copilot status were out a lot of money.
At the very beginning of a PPL or Amway type model people have a chance to build a list of clients and can make good money. Once the market is saturated it's very difficult for anyone to break in and they are chided for not working hard enough. I believe Gus said in his testimony that he gives motivational speeches because the model is so simple.
It's my opinion that TA was a user just like JA is. I believe there is evidence that he called her a "3 hole wonder". I believe that he had no intention of marrying Jodi, but kept dangling the carrot for sex. He had the T-Shirt made up saying "Travis Alexander's" he wanted her to believe that she was his one and only. JA seems to very emotionally needy and looks for validation through getting the rich attractive guy to marry her. Making that T-Shirt was, to her, like slipping a ring on her finger.
When she started going psycho on him he didn't seem to care. I think he believed that he was in complete control of her, even if she did things he didn't like, this seems narcissistic to me. I think he believed that if she flew off the handle he could deal with easily because he was much bigger than her. However, he misjudged JA and it cost him his life.
Most women would figure out they were being played and leave the guy with another life experience to learn from.
If I was dating a woman and broke it off with her and she started doing the things JA did I'd be getting a restraining order toot sweet. TA didn't, and not only didn't he get a restraining order he continued to have sex with him. She was nothing more than a :censored: toy to him.
On that fateful night he allowed JA into the house and had sex with her and played games with the camera. I think when they were done JA hit him with an ultimatum. How he answered it would either save or cost him his life. JA had come prepared to kill him if the answer was wrong. If he had proposed to her and given her a ring he'd still be alive today. JMO
It's my belief that he was a narcissist and she is a narcissistic psychopath. I don't want to make excuses for JA, but TA wasn't the clean cut wonderful Mormon everyone seems to think he was. JMO
All of the above is JMO.