For quite awhile now, TH's timeline has bugged me, but I haven't been sure why.
While relaxing before heading to bed, I suddenly realized what it was that's bugging me.
It's *how* the timeline is being view.
It isn't a timeline for a rocket launch that has to be timed to l/100 of a second. Nor is it a timeline for a precise military operation.
It's just a mom running errands that on any other day would be...just running errands.
So I'd like to take a look at it from a simple, human perspective.
It's been a busy time: Kyron's science fair, getting the project set up the day before. Baby K is fussy. Maybe she was last night, too, and maybe TH has been up with her a couple of times. Dunno. Maybe she's a little tired--not uncommon for busy moms.
There's the science fair today, and later TH may be the one driving Kyron for the weekend swap with DY. That's been mentioned.
So far, her timeline re: FM and being at the gym checks out. Not to the second, but it's getting backed up.
Suppose that she's telling the truth about a fussy baby and driving around. And maybe after the chaos and noise of the excited kids at the science fair, the idea of a little peace and quiet sounds like a good idea to her, too, for herself.
So, they're rolling along. Baby K is settling down. Then --ooops. Baby K has a big, big urpsie, as babies will do. Or maybe a big, big, liquid poopy.
Whatever. It's unpleasant, baby K is crying, and it has to be taken care of.
TY finds a safe place to pull over in the country. Whips out the mommy bag. (I'm convinced that in case the planet explodes or something, we could rebuild civillization from what moms carry in those bags!)
She cleans up baby K, gets her settled down. Maybe has to change her shirt or panties, too. Gets the mess corraled into plastic bags--one for trash, including wipes, one for laundry (ooooh yuck).
TH has rolled down the window to get fresh air. Lots of fresh air.
At this point, let's say that the clean-up and soothing baby K has taken 10 minutes. Now Th is sitting back for a bit.
Nice fresh air. She's tired. Her head goes back, and she dozes off for maybe 10 minutes. She and baby K just doze happily in the fresh air.
Another 10 minutes.
It would be very very easy to speculate how 20 minutes of the 90 minutes "driving around" could be accounted for. There's driving around. There's cleaning up. There's soothing. There's dozing off without meaning to.
Does that make sense to anyone else?
The timeline, IMHO, can't be expected to have military precision. And in human terms, I think it's very likely that some time can be accounted for by normal stuff that might not even be talked about. As in "driving around" might include baby urpsie. I doubt she'd timeline 5 minutes to clean up urpsie, 3 minutes to put new top on, etc.
It's all just a normal part of running around with little kids. But it takes p time in that 90 min. span.