Mama-cita
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I am a nurse and have spent my career working in maternity and pediatrics. It is kind of sad for me to see the many negative responses and suspicious fingers pointed at the hospital workers on this board. It is not easy to become a nurse, and it is very difficult, and very often thankless work with few perks. Most people I have worked with have been kind and compassionate individuals who treat patients with the same compassion which they themselves would like to be treated.
First of all, in response to the overwhelming question by MANY here (and I did work in a newborn nursery in my career as an RN) RECTAL temperatures are NOT routinely used in newborns, axillary temps are (under arm). But I HAVE NO DOUBT that there is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY a rectal thermometer could inflict any kind of injury or tearing on the anus at all. If anyone ever saw their newborn pass a meconium after birth, they would have witnessed the anus is somewhat pliable for that reason. It is not easy to get employed in a maternity ward, in addition to background checks, you have to have special tags (usually a different color than people who work in the rest of the hospital) and that is the only way you are allowed to be there on that ward. Hospitals are very persnickety about rules as they pertain to Mom/Baby wards. I don't see how a nurse would have the time to commit such an action. In my day, there were other babies to bathe, change, feed if mom was resting, weigh, take vitals, get PKUs, send for circumcision, oops and here comes the newborn photographer wanting all those babies ready to take the 1st photo. I don't see how it was a nurse. And the only other personnel authorized to be touching those babies would be a licensed aide, helping the nurse. People can't believe parents could do such a thing. I remember working in peds. A particular case comes to mind of a 9 month old who had to have a complete vaginoplasty because of repeated abuse from more than one male relative who lived in the home (dad and grandpa). It happens folks, probably more often than most people think. These parents are young, so who knows what their perception of childbirth etc. is? I am sorry, the parents did something here...it may not have been a penis, but she was forcibly penetrated by something, larger than a thick finger, by one of those two...
ETA - Well I guess she confessed, I am not surprised at the outcome.
First of all, in response to the overwhelming question by MANY here (and I did work in a newborn nursery in my career as an RN) RECTAL temperatures are NOT routinely used in newborns, axillary temps are (under arm). But I HAVE NO DOUBT that there is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY a rectal thermometer could inflict any kind of injury or tearing on the anus at all. If anyone ever saw their newborn pass a meconium after birth, they would have witnessed the anus is somewhat pliable for that reason. It is not easy to get employed in a maternity ward, in addition to background checks, you have to have special tags (usually a different color than people who work in the rest of the hospital) and that is the only way you are allowed to be there on that ward. Hospitals are very persnickety about rules as they pertain to Mom/Baby wards. I don't see how a nurse would have the time to commit such an action. In my day, there were other babies to bathe, change, feed if mom was resting, weigh, take vitals, get PKUs, send for circumcision, oops and here comes the newborn photographer wanting all those babies ready to take the 1st photo. I don't see how it was a nurse. And the only other personnel authorized to be touching those babies would be a licensed aide, helping the nurse. People can't believe parents could do such a thing. I remember working in peds. A particular case comes to mind of a 9 month old who had to have a complete vaginoplasty because of repeated abuse from more than one male relative who lived in the home (dad and grandpa). It happens folks, probably more often than most people think. These parents are young, so who knows what their perception of childbirth etc. is? I am sorry, the parents did something here...it may not have been a penis, but she was forcibly penetrated by something, larger than a thick finger, by one of those two...
ETA - Well I guess she confessed, I am not surprised at the outcome.