I saw a youtube video of an attorney who explained why no one should ever talk to the police. It made some really convincing points. A totally innocent person can give a 100% honest interview and yet it could be twisted or misunderstood and be used to convict that (innocent) person. When I look at all the miscommunications that occur in normal life, I can see how that could happen.
I think i would take that risk with my child, because frankly i don't know i could live any life without knowing if they were safe and okay, so if i got wrongly arrested it would matter only to me in that LE wouldn't be looking for whoever did it. I wouldn't care about my freedoms except freedom to find my child. I think because children are so vulnerable and can't take care of themselves or maybe get away, etc. :: heartbreak over the thought of these poor missing kids:: But if it were my spouse, and I knew I was innocent (!), and the missing spouse was in the process of divorcing me and there was a chance that they had (in my spousal mind) run off by choice, and I knew that LE would look at me by default (because i was the spouse and because they were divorcing me so i become the de facto number one person to look at) and i could wrongly go to jail and leave my kids (!!) with no parents, for something I didn't do.. well i might take that youtube lawyers' advice and not talk to LE and not have them search my home without a warrant. I wouldn't be willing to sit in a jail cell and have my young kids with no parents, one missing one wrongly accused in jail, raised by someone else just because LE wanted to convict me because i was the spouse and not because i'd actually done anything.
I know it would have sounded GUILTY to me before I saw that video on why innocent people shouldn't talk to the popo. (He must be a good attorney because he totally changed my mind on this topic!)