In a nut shell: the lead-up to May 25-26....
1. May 21, PM into May 22 , early AM. With Michelle's real-time support, TA confronts JA with her MariaM lies, and cuts her off altogether unless she's willing to come clean.
2. JA responds immediately, by text, even though she supposedly doesn't have her replacement Helio yet.
3. TA tells her again to put whatever she has to say in writing.
4. AFTER she has been so thoroughly busted, JA the sociopath texts again as MariaM. TA refers to this slap in his face during the Gchat.
5. JA CALLS TA AND THEY TALK ABOUT HER BIG MESS, NEED A LAWYER DRAMA. ....this is in the wee hours of May 22, the day she'll later say is when their relationship ended and passwords were revoked.
More importantly, whatever came up on May 25/26 was DIFFERENT.
6. May 22, later. TA texts with Regan and tells her the psycho was as psycho as ever, but that she had "eventually confessed."
7. TA had no contact with the



at all after that, until the evening of May 25.
8. On the evening of May 25 the



tried to get TA on the phone, most likely by leaving a VM to call her.
9. At 8:16PM, May 25, TA texts her....put it in writing.
10. Between 8:21 and 9:08 PM on the 25th....she refuses to put anything in writing or in a VM, he refuses to deal with her unless/until she does.
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What happened on May 13/14 led to TA forcing her hand on May 21, a hand she reshuffled to play out May 25/26.