I'm with you 100% on this post. I didn't see this as a vent, you hit on one of the major issues of this case. Without question this trial has become what it is because of the physical appearance and apparent allure of the defendant (which I, like you, do not understand at all).
Clearly in the media and elsewhere it's like there's some additional mystery as to why a "beautiful" woman like JA would commit such a crime, like her one time long blond straight hair and petite frame gives her privledge and exemption from the horrible traits she obviously has like rage and violence and the ability to manipulate.
I understand it's simple with the men with her: sex, sex, sex. I've heard several people who knew her (men and women) talk about her sexual energy and how she oozed a really strong seductive fatal attraction type energy. I know this type of woman and they are always bad news. I've seen all sorts of men get involved with them, sometimes just for the thrill to see what it's like and to see if they (the men) can handle them.
She is no different than any other murderer, doesn't deserve any more consideration than the next brutal killer, she is worse and more calculating and dangerous and anyone who is blind to these facts and her "beauty" is delusional and needs to snap out of their fog ASAP.