Feed back - TA talked about severe verbal abuse from his own mother . . direct link when look @ role model and family of origin . . consistent risk marker (only one) is exposed to DV in family that raised them - kids learn from people that raised them. . . difficult for them t learn another way -
can't expect someone who grows up in Spanish speak family to speak perfect English . . most people she works with were direct receipients of abuse or exposed to it.
JA talked about sexual contact in their relationship - for her the sex made relationship seemed more special - more she complied with what he wanted the more satisfactory sex was . . . .
(missed a little)
different way of looking @ sexual acts between men and women - when women act out seen as





- when men act out sexually -they are seen as a stud. . . women are seen more negatively
missed a little more
minimize and give much detail?
no doesn't - just says classic rude . . . part of promise not to write negative things - she has made a promise to him not to write specific things in her journal - keeping the promise
refer to tirades as one of the cycles?
she talks about a pattern
object beyond scope - overruled
pattern pissed off - he goes off on her then make up
she gets sense of this pattern - increase and escalation of this pattern - timing of the pattern talks about things being
objection - sustained
happening every few days good period of time then blow up
escalation?
pattern of blow ups and back down
seen in text messages and in regard to physical incidents by ALV
journal entry compare TA to her own father?
she does . . . similar athleticism and physiques opinionated and republican and both make rude statements and find ways to make up for it
pg 377
witness is reading - objection overruled
point in this journal entry talks about 2 hr chat?
yes
IM chatting - I let him get it out of his system . .. how she reacts to his tirades . .
pattern she sees . .
May 27 another journal entry pg 379
meeting Ryan Burns - taking trip to Utah to see him -
evidence behavioral of her moving on?
yes
great news- she is excited they have texted each other
make plans to go to Utah?
yes