You know she was. Day 1 of her cross was on a Thursday or Friday, the last day of court before the weekend break, and Wilmott finished direct with just about 30 minutes to spare for Juan to start cross. Day 2 of her cross was the day of that super long delay at the start of court, where everyone was scratching their heads what could be going on that would require ALV to be back in chambers with the judge and attorneys. It was after that that Juan began just turning straight to the judge when she was unresponsive.
I am positive that after those first thirty minutes with Juan ALV knew two things, that Juan wasn't going to back down and she is incapable of it. So she rolled into court the next Monday demanded the judge instruct him on how she expects to be spoken to. Juan said, F that, of course, and the compromise struck was that when she was being difficult he would agree to appeal to the judge to direct her on how to answer rather than instruct her himself.