minor4th
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Do you not remember Reeva's own mother saying that Reeva had told her she and OP were fighting a lot?
http://www.express.co.uk/news/world...of-Oscar-Pistorius-claim-her-grieving-parents
I don't know if you think her mother is lying, but I don't believe she is. So assuming she's telling the truth, Reeva was fighting a 'lot' with OP. That doesn't indicate a particularly happy or loving relationship to me. She didn't say what they were fighting about, but having heard Maddie Sims note that OP was often irritated by Reeve just because she had her hair in a pony tail, or asked the waiter too many questions, or was dressed too casually makes me think he was extremely possessive and controlling, and maybe in Reeva he finally found someone who tried to stand up to him, rather than the more submissive teenagers he dated before her. I can totally see someone who is that possessive and controlling killing someone in the heat of the moment. I never said everyone with those character traits is a murderer, but unless you've personally been with someone whose standards are so rigid and exact that you can never live up to them, you wouldn't know what they're capable of when pushed.
Whatever Reeva's mother has said in media reports is not evidence in this trial. I'm talking about what the state has actually presented as evidence. Sure, one can imagine that he was possessive and controlling and could get worked up in a rage and kill his girlfriend - but being able to imagine it is not proof, kwim?