I think what Moller said was something like 90% of the messages were normal, often loving. So perhaps not all the 90% were "loving".
I found the messages presented today pretty damning. This is too early in the relationship for You have picked on me incessantly, I was not flirting with anyone today and I feel sick that you suggested that, "You do everything to throw tantrums ...Im certainly very unhappy and sad.
Compare that to OP in the affidavit: "We were deeply in love and I could not be happier. I know she felt the same way."
Exactly... much too early in a relationship. OP that early on not loving her for herself but wanting her to be something she wasn't, e.g. to not chew gum, to not talk with an accent, not talk about exes, not touch any man even on the arm, etc.