Trial Discussion Thread #12 - 14.03.24, Day 14

[james83]

Its gets worse and worse, another example of him making her feel like ***** on a night out just 6 days before the shooting.

 

[Trooper]

long message again. he speaks very fast..

reeva to Oscar. 7th feb 22.09..= 24.09


Ilike to believe I made you proud at these kind of functions, I present myself well. while you are off chatting with fans. and whilst you were chatting I was saying good bye to peoole, I was being cordial while you were busy.

I thought I was helping by getting to the exit quickly, I can go fast on high heels..

I might joke around and be tomboyish at times, I am a person too. I realize you get harassed , I am rying my best to make you happy. . but I don't think you ever are. you are the one person I deserve protection from. .

 

[kaos]

Argh! My feed keeps stalling out...

Mine was too, thought it was my buffering though.

 

[minor4th]

90 % loving conversations

 

[zwiebel]

RS: ....I like to think I do you proud at these functions.....I was just being cordial while saying goodbye while you tried to leave...trying to help. Didn't think you would criticize me so loudly that others could hear.....I realize you get harrassed.....I'm trying to help....can't be criticized by others for dating you, and be criticized by you as well....

 

[Trooper]

charts will be handed up. adjourned till tomorrow folks!!

 

[canny]

Can anyone tell us Oscar's demeanor during this testimony?

Cool Calm and Collected!

 

[MeeBee]

Well, they certainly established that he is controlling, angry, jealous. But we already knew that.

 

[BritsKate]

Not to detract from testimony but my ex (and many other abusive people I know of) seem to share a history of brandishing weapons, flouting authority figures, and participating in highly reckless behaviors (unprotected sex, fast driving, etc).

Just FWIW.

(And...it could be that I'm just reading into it - but I also 'see' Oscar justifying his behaviours/actions and Reeva trying to make amends and wanting to fix everything, etc.)

 

[zwiebel]

I could not keep up, but it looks like there has been a string of msgs between them, with OP having had a jealous/temper fit, Reeva rebuking him next day and OP blaming it on headache/sickness/nuisance fans or Reeva herself. Whilst saying sorry for doing it though......

 

[james83]

#OscarPistorius “I was not flirting with anyone, I feel sick that you suggested that and made a scene at the table and made us leave early..
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#OscarPistorius Reeva: “I do everything to make you happy and don’t rock the boat… BB

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#OscarPistorius Reeva: “… you throw tantrums in front of people…. “ BB
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#OscarPistorius Reeva: “I’m scared of you sometimes and how you snap at me and how you will act towards me… “ BB

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#OscarPistorius Reeva: “I get snapped at and told my accent and voice is annoying… stop chewing gum…" BB

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#OscarPistorius Reeva: “I didn’t think you would criticise me, especially not so loudly in front of others… “ BB
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#OscarPistorius Reeva: “I reheard myself as a lady, but not tonight with the way you treated me.” BB

 

[zwiebel]

We have adjourned until tomorrow.

So...all in the garden was not rosy, uh??

 

[kaos]

Cool Calm and Collected!

I thought so too. Very unphased considering his previous courtroom drama queen antics and how damning this actually is to him.

 

[zwiebel]

I wonder who the people were who criticized or didn't like Reeva dating OP?

 

[MeeBee]

He has issues...

 

[james83]

Well, they certainly established that he is controlling, angry, jealous. But we already knew that.

Not in this relationship we hadn't.

 

[Trooper]

You're doing fab I was going to ask if you were a typist or stenographer lol.

nooo.. but I know how my stenographer feels. :tantrum:

 

[zwiebel]

I think the big scene OP made when he forced Reeeva to leave early was at Darren's engagement party?

 

[kaos]

Well, they certainly established that he is controlling, angry, jealous. But we already knew that.

It's a bit different seeing it written down as opposed to just what an ex-gf has said on the stand.

 

[MeeBee]

Not in this relationship we hadn't.

These things typically carry over...I'm not surprised to see this.