My impression so far is that OP has great difficulty controlling his emotional impulses, he has been careless with guns, cars and a boat (all capable of harming others if not used responsibly), and he tends to blame others, rarely accepting any responsibility for his own actions. In court, he went so far as to plug his ears to avoid hearing the consequences of his actions. I can't imagine that made a favorable impression on the judge.
As always, all of the above is just my opinion.
Agree. I cannot imagine what was attractive about him to begin with, other than overcoming his disability with great success. JMO