Magdalyn
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Imo, he stopped maturing emotionally around the age of 15 yrs old. Something seems off or stunted regarding his emotional age vs his physical age. It's as if he stopped maturing mentally in his early teen years but continued to age physically.
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ETA: redundant sentences.
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I think 15 is too generous. :seeya: I have a 15 year old boy. He's your average teen, rolls the eyes from time to time, but emotionally....years ahead of OP's observable behaviors. I'd estimate OP's emotionally maturity/reactions/responses to be the equivalent to a toddler. I'm not kidding. Not even a little.
OP's behaviors (fingers in ears, sobbing outbursts, lopsided, ever changing story telling (can only remember details that make him look good, otherwise...all a blur!) all smack of toddlerhood to me.
What, in my opinion, killed Reeva? OP giving free reign to the mother of all temper tantrums.
And before someone can ask what precipitated the temper tantrum... IMO, the same thing that would inspire any three year old to have a temper tantrum. He wasn't getting his way, or Reeva wasn't listening, Reeva would stop yelling, Reeva was leaving, Reeva and I don't want you to leave, Reeva was taunting me, Reeva called me a name, Reeva made fun of me, OP is jealous, OP is embarrassed, OP is tired and Reeva won't let me sleep....Seriously. I think he's three. Especially after today.
So well done OP and defense, you really swayed me today! :jail: