TorisMom003
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If there was a faint light on, it could have been the cell phone light.
It could also be the bathroom light shining through the crack in the toilet room door.
If there was a faint light on, it could have been the cell phone light.
I don't think either of them specifically said that the toilet light was on.
It could also be the bathroom light shining through the crack in the toilet room door.
Really? Then why is this presented as fact so often - that they saw the toilet light on?
The Stipps are on a direct line to the bathroom. If Dr. Stipp, with all of his military and gun training, can mistake bat bangs for gunshots, then anyone can. (We already know, by the way, that Estelle van der Merwe mistook OP's crying for a woman crying.) Are you disputing the idea that Dr. Stipp (and hence Mrs. Stipp) was mistaken in this regard? If you are, then it follows you must believe that all the loud bangs heard by Stipp were gunshots. But even the state does not say that. Why would you believe such a thing?The Stipps position related to the bathroom has a lot to do with it imo.
I disagree with you main point, imo it's just not possible that all those people would fail to hear gunfire, but then all hear a bat hitting a door , it's not plausible at all.
They saw light in the toilet room through the window. They didn't say that it was definitely the light in the toilet room that was on.
Perhaps that is why OP and the defense came up with "toilet room light was broken". To try and discredit the Stipps.
MOO
Yes, am I right in thinking that Mrs vdM makes no mention of looking at the clock when she heard the bangs? If she didn't, then I agree that "around 3 am" should be understood only as a rough estimate of the time. They might not have looked at the clock until after all the commotion, so it would be a retrospective estimate.
Happier times.
Photo taken by friend/contractor Christo Menelao, just a few days before IIRC.
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What I feel a lot of people don't realise, Gerrie Nel included, is that OP's emotions are very real, and not faked. The reason this is a source of confusion is because in some ways he seems mature and grown up, in other ways he is not.
According to experts: "Children with physical or learning disabilities may be at risk for unhealthy or delayed emotional development. Learning disabilities can exacerbate emotional issues and prevent the development of healthy peer relationships, according to Jean C. Gorman, author of "Teaching Exceptional Children," appearing on LD OnLine, a resource for learning disabilities and ADHD. Because a child's physical disabilities are more visible and intrusive, it can be difficult for her to gain the social benefits of playing with other children. A research report by SSTA Research Centre for the Saskatchewan School Board says that children with disabilities may be slower to develop emotions and weaker in expressing those emotions, and may have difficulty forming attachments, which impacts identity development."
http://everydaylife.globalpost.com/...ce-childrens-emotional-development-19539.html
The problem is that people have not factored this in. They keep talking about OP as though he grew up like themselves, and they judge him accordingly. That's why they keep trying to come up with imaginary scenarios about how he must have killed RS, each one more ridiculous than the other.
Emotionally he is wired differently to many others, and he can't help himself, and he is not faking it. His family and friends know that, which is why they are so affectionate towards him. We simply cannot use our limited vantage point to say that he is guilty, which is why I am extremely careful about this.
I have not been able to find this though, so if anyone can find where they specifically say in their testimony that they saw light in the toilet room, I would really appreciate it.
Really? Then why is this presented as fact so often - that they saw the toilet light on?
I have not been able to find this though, so if anyone can find where they specifically say in their testimony that they saw light in the toilet room, I would really appreciate it.
Does anyone think Oscar would agree to a plea bargain during this postponement? It has been suggested that his lawyers will be trying to arrange something with the prosecution. I just can't image Oscar going for that, I think he must have pretty much done things the way he wanted to during this trial to his detriment. Do you think he'll listen to his advisors at this stage?
Really? Then why is this presented as fact so often - that they saw the toilet light on?
It's not incorrect.
Does anyone think Oscar would agree to a plea bargain during this postponement? It has been suggested that his lawyers will be trying to arrange something with the prosecution. I just can't image Oscar going for that, I think he must have pretty much done things the way he wanted to during this trial to his detriment. Do you think he'll listen to his advisors at this stage?
I think if was only Annette Stipp who claimed to see light in the toilet room iirc, and noted that it seemed dimmer than the bathroom light. Outwage did the questioning of her, if that helps you find it. I don't think Dr. Stipp thought the toilet light was ON, though he said the bathroom light was "clearly ON."