Rob Opie: Where have you gone Oscar Pistorius? The nation turns its lied-to eyes from you.
Posted on April 20, 2014 in Oscar Pistorius trial
Truthfulness is a highly valued attribute. Just ask the sporting heroes who have fallen, one after the next, after being caught out telling a lie. South Africa’s much-loved Blade Runner is one in a line of the nation’s sporting heroes whose reputations have been shredded amid debate over whether lies are being told. In this case Oscar Pistorius isn’t only fighting for his career, but for how he will spend the rest of his life. He has said as much in the televised trial. Human brand specialist and author Rob Opie analyses how Oscar Pistorius is shaping up in our perceptions. We should never underestimate honesty, we are reminded here. – JCOscar Pistorius
By Rob Opie*
Up until last week Oscars Pistorius’s destiny and fate lay in his own hands, until he effectively played himself out the game on the witness stand. In life, we all have choices to make.
Oscar made his by choosing not to tell the truth and attempting to evade a murder conviction through exploiting technical loopholes. All he achieved was to place his fate and destiny right back into the hands of Gerrie Nel – who is inspired to close any technical loopholes that have recently been exploited in SA law.
Rob Opie Oscar Pistorius and the importance of telling the truth: Human brand specialist Rob Opie highlights the importance of honesty for success.
While the court sequence has brought little relief for Reeva’s family, it has however taught the nation some powerful lessons in life. History always repeats itself. When will we ever learn? Why do we as human beings not ‘tell it like it is? Why do we fail to take responsibility? One can never wish away reality – and opening up to tell the truth is the only way to free oneself from a life time burden.
Ask Lance Armstrong, ask Tiger Woods, ask Joost van der Westhuizen, ask Hansie Cronje. All these great sporting champions were brought down to earth after choosing to lie, as they got caught up in ‘new age grandiosity’ – believing one is above the law and the society that we all live in and contribute towards together .
If Oscar was innocent he would have acted very differently under the Gerrie Nel cross examination and barrage, but it was not to be, as both Gerrie and Barry know exactly what transpired on that fateful day. Oscar ‘het sy moer gestrip’. He knew who was behind that door.
Millions of rands of court time has been wasted in a media fuelled frenzy – or has it been wasted? I believe NOT, as in this case, which will be followed by the Dewani case, powerful lessons have been conveyed to a nation that has to some extent lost its moral compass, due to the actions a select few in leadership and role model positions. Things needed to change fast and the media coverage of Oscar’s trial has certainly highlighted the importance of moral fibre, taking responsibility for ones actions, accountability, consequence, respect for others, and maintaining a balanced perspective in life.
From Oscar’s case comes tragedy and inspiration. Sadly it takes a few tragic incidents for the nation to catch a wake up! But, in a heartfelt way, all South Africans owe Reeva Steenkamp a great deal of gratitude for giving up her life to help restore our country’s moral fibre and put us back on the road of hope and prosperity. Adversity always happens to restore universal balance.
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