Like a lot of people, I was waiting for LH to testify but unfortunately I do not find her believable because it is so obvious that she is protecting JRH at all costs. At the end of the day, I think she invested a decade of her life in JRH and like anyone who is invested that much time, energy, and hope in someone else she will not admit that she was wrong. If I have my information correct, she took care of the bills, split the chores, helped JRH through college, and held his hand through everything even when he was betraying her and bashing her behind her back. I want very much to sympathize with her, but her obfuscating on the stand and characterizing JRH as "lost" did it in for me. The man is not "lost." He's had a six year old sexting habit (with god only knows what else) and she admitted today that she knew about it.
I think the next time I run across someone who thinks a baby will make someone grow up, I'm going to refer them to this case. It's unbelievable to me that they decided to still have a child despite having serious marital problems.
Her testimony also made me even more angry at JRH because it is not his wife's job to make sure he grows up and becomes a real boy. It's JRH's responsibility as a thirty year old married father, college graduate, IT specialist to get his crap together to ensure he fulfills his commitments to his family. If he can't do that, then he should have taken his own advice and gotten a divorce. But in the end, even to this day with his ex-wife taking the stand, it's all about saving face for JRH and avoiding responsibility for his actions.