Again, what you consider a strong support base isn't what I consider to be one.‎ People can have MANY acquaintances but lack meaningful relationships and true friendships.
My friends know me, they know my shortcomings and strong points. If testifying on my behalf, they would say I was a fabulous parent BUT they would also say they've witnessed me lose my temper with my kids. They'd say I desperately love my kids but that it chaps my a$$ to no end when they destroy the house or refuse to eat the dinner I spent



hours making. They would point out I'm a loving mom but I didn't love all over my son after he took lipstick and drew on my brand new carpet with it.
If they said 'I've never seen her raise her voice to her son" or that 'she's ALWAYS loving towards him' or that they had no idea I was running a meth lab in my basement, simply put; they don't know me any better than the neighbor down the street knows me.
And for the record, I never said his guilt or innocence is dictated by his support system (or lack thereof.) It's MY OPINION however, that he lacks the ability to bond and develop meaningful relationships with people including his own wife and child. He's a garden variety sociopath void of a conscious. It's all about the exterior with RH because there is no interior.‎