carbuff
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Summer break.
According to the timeline I linked earlier, it was closer to 3 hours than 5. Last seen at 5:00, reported at 9-ish, but we know dad started looking for her around 8:00-8:30. Three hours is still a long time for a little one to be out of sight, though. I agree.
They might have been looking in the immediate area before that, too. 8-ish is when he started going door to door.
The time our youngest went missing briefly around suppertime, we waited first figuring he was just late, and then we called the best friend's house, because he and friend were in and out of each other's houses all the time and it was quite likely he was having supper over there and forgot/didn't bother to call. Not only wasn't he there, friend wasn't there either. So friend's mother got on the phone, too.
We were just starting the drive-around-the-neighborhood/walk-through-back-yards bit and talking about whether to call the cops when they came dragging up from the heavily treed area behind our development. (They were muddy, hungry, thirsty, and slightly bloody from blackberry canes -- they had decided to explore

I'd say it was a solid two hours, perhaps three, before we even talked about police, and then it was just whether they could do any searching we weren't already doing. It never crossed anybody's mind that they could have been kidnapped.
So I don't find the behavior or the delay unusual, and it doesn't necessarily mean lack of supervision either. Kids are slippery and they don't always do what they're told.