The problem with children is that they do not have the brain development to make proper choices. There is a study somewhere that was done. The parents were able to watch.
100% said that their child would not go with the stranger. 100% of the children went with the stranger.
Pervs have a Phd in being pervs. For instance, we do not know how Austin Sigg got Jessica, but he did. And he sure wasn't a seasoned master. They know what they want and how to get it.
Even adults have poor decision making skills. They would not be victims sometimes if they did not succumb. For instance, with Ted Bundy. I could name more current ones, but I won't.
When I was growing up, people smoked in stores and elevators. There was concrete under swing sets.
No helmets were worn during hockey. (How many of my contemporaries have died in their 40's because of that!)
I would not want to go back to those days.
People can decide what they want in terms of child raising. To say kids turned out all right is not true. How many have issues as adults because of the way they were raised?
When I was growing up, we never heard of child sex abuse. Now I wonder what really was the story with the girls labelled as "





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A helicopter parent to me is one who does their child's homework. Not one who sets reasonable expectations and limits on what a child is allowed to do.