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ITA on gong show, flop house
I have a question for moms and grandmas: I think DM is correct that toward the end of the video, brother Carter is looking for Cash by kicking the blankets. Then Carter leaves the room - and DM declares he goes looking for Cash, which isn't something they could know. Is it not more likely that Carter made his way to the bathroom to pee? The next stop for a 4 y/o should be a stop in the kitchen where a caregiver gives them something to drink or a piece of fruit? But no, the sun is up and shining in the windows, twin brother Cash is missing, and this little boy goes back to his bed, alone. Once a 4 y/o is awake, he is "up"?
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Mom, grandma, twin here.
I would have to say that it is very individual. Some four year olds are deep sleepers, some are light sleepers. It also depends on what time did they go to sleep, did they eat a lot before bed, did they sleep well through the night, did they wake up to use the bathroom, did they have any nightmares and so on.
Cash was the one who was asleep until he was taken. To me, he looks still half-asleep. That's a strange posture he was in, almost vertical; I think he didn't even have the wherewithal to react at that point.
I agree that Carter most likely went to urinate, but when he comes back he just stares at their shared bed. If he went to the bathroom then he knows that Cash isn't in the bathroom, or in the bed, or visible in the room, so he is puzzled as to where Cash might be.
That part is just unspeakable. It almost replicates what DB did....just standing near the bed, staring. DB trying to figure out how best to grab a boy, Carter trying to figure out why Cash isn't where he's supposed to be.
As to the video getting to the media---well, there is only one suspect announced right now, so we can't say anything except about DB. But if that video is family property, and someone sold it to the media, that is very, very unkosher.