I totally agree with what you are saying here! When has getting a lawyer mean you are a Narcissist? I've said it before: He got a lawyer, lawyer says don't speak to anyone about the case (which seems like normal advice for a lawyer, IMO), the family goes to his residence and knocks on his front door, the guy says, "My lawyer says I can't talk about it." and they picket his house expecting him to talk. To me, that is not going to work. They have already printed pictures of him and put them on posters, have named him publicly when LE hadn't done that, they posted pictures from his sm site on their sites... I am NOT saying he is innocent OR guilty of anything -- I have no idea -- but I will say that he would be crazy to have spoken to anyone or to have gone on searches. The family is upset that he did not do those things, but I am just thinking that anything he could have said would easily be published publicly by family and friends. We have already seen how words have gotten twisted or misinterpreted. Heck, even on this forum, someone may post something and someone else takes it the wrong way and things need to be restated and clarified. If he went on a search and a random person says: "Hey aren't you the dude who was with her last??" and he says, "I can't talk about it. My lawyer said not to." and walks away, that random person could easily say: "Yeah I asked him and he looked all nervous and shifty and said his lawyer won't let him talk." That in and of itself is a good reason to keep quiet. But it doesn't mean he is the ONLY one who has information that would be helpful to the case. And it also doesn't make him a Narcissist. (On a side note, way back when the original post came up about the Narcissist, I really thought that poster was talking about HF -- ooopsie!)