jnTexas
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I'm sorry, but that article annoyed me to some extent. CPS sent the child for a sexual abuse exam that showed no evidence of sexual abuse. Due to that, other options regarding how she obtained herpes had to be taken into consideration. If someone's child was taken by protective services DESPITE a sexual abuse exam showing no signs of abuse, everyone would be up in arms. Also, the article questions why Coe was allowed to live there. From what I understand in reading other articles, the mother denied anyone was living in the home. CPS can't stake out a house to see if anyone is there that shouldn't be. They can check closets and rooms, but if there is no sign of anyone else living there, what is CPS supposed to do?
I will conceed that we do not know every single detail, we never will. CPS may have some of the blame in this. However, I am tired of people blaming CPS for everything! They can only do so much. If they had removed this child, with no evidence of sexual abuse (as per a medical exam) and no evidence of someone else living in the home (which there may have been, but we don't actually know), people would be all up in arms about CPS removing children for no reason without any evidence. CPS is a convienent entity to blame since they are supposed to be making sure children are safe. HOWEVER, CPS wouldn't be needed if people didn't physically/emotionally/mentally abuse their children! The so-called PARENTS are the ones at fault, but it's easier to blame an entity, who often is doing the best they can (admittedly not in all situations though).
Sorry for my rant. =)
I blame the mom! The biofather saw the bruises and called CPS. This woman was a nurse, and she was the main care giver. She should've been able to tell by the bruises her child was being abused. She should've seen the change in her daughter. This is another case of keeping my BF is more important than protecting my child.
I wonder how many other children were in the home and how old they are?