It's not YOU Dep. Dawg. It's what our society has become and demands in the way of " has to be sensational to be important enough to read". I do blame Social Media for this shift in how the truth can be and usually is distorted and the pain that people can and do feel from the disinformation. But it's not your fault.
I was never going to speak of this but I think I owe an explanation for my opinion about truth and also sensitivity in news reporting by MSM outlets.
I had a very negative situation occur out of the blue a few years ago in which a family member, the perpetrator of domestic violence against me, gave a false version of what happened to me to the local LE. I had given my written statement and oral statements and they were accurate and consistent. Local LE, in turn, put a sensational spin on the story to make it into a national news item ( and FAILED!!!) which was based upon the lie of the accused, not me, the victim.
So, I know, I really really know what it's like to have social media judge and almost crucify an innocent person. No matter what I do, the erroneous news blurb will stay on the Internet news sites and both of us , abuser and victim, look like complete fools. He, because of what he DID, and me, because the local LE LIED about the reason I was abused to make the story sensational.
Therefore, I am very much against the carrying of tales as I was victimized by the " sensationalized version" which was a stupid and sick LIE. Twice- once as a victim of abuse and the second time, in the made up story the abuser told LE, which was SO STUPID they should be embarrassed to print it. In fact, it is my belief that it never would have been " spun" so dramatically if not for the public's hunger for sensationalism.
As I told the LE personnel responsible and the DFW media who did run the untruthful version--
You don't re-victimize a crime victim.
Again, this is my own personal hurt coming through, but it was tough to know that I had been beaten, then laughed at because a spouse gave a farce of a story about how and why I was beaten.
I swear to you that this did happen, and is still online with the lies intact.
Hugs and I'm sorry if you were upset by the strong way I worded my objections.
Maria